firstly: regarless of your age.
seconly: your spouse is aware of it.
thirdly: its for fun only
fourthly: single or married
Personally I love to flirt even at my age of 55
2007-07-15 23:14:44 · 21 answers · asked by **tomtom 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wife is OK with it cause she knows its only for fun.
2007-07-15 23:41:06 · update #1
Ah ye. It is in us all i think. I do it. Im married.
2007-07-15 23:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Gracie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok to flirt, but only if
Your really are sure your partner is ok with it.
The person you are flirting with knows that it is just flirting, and nothing is going to come of it. Some women take flirting very seriously & may think you mean more than you actually do, like you really fancy them.
My husband is a born flirt & while most of the time its ok with me, we have been in a situation where the other party has taken it seriously to the point that I was getting weird phone calls & texts from her. She thought if he was flirting with her there must be something wrong with our marriage & he must be on the lookout for someone new & maybe she could be the one!!!!
Just be careful who you flirt with.
2007-07-16 00:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cathyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still like to flirt and I can give you a couple of years. But as most people have said if you are married it must remain flirting.
Chad I have flirted on many occasions and even now I am not in a relationship, that is all I want it to be. A good bit of fun.
2007-07-15 23:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married, started flirting and ended up having an affair which last several years.I fell in love with the guy- Got caught thrice. Third time we got caught we ended it as he jumped ship after all the things he said to me. So please don't flirt, thats where it all starts!
Above all it changes your personality, I used a be a happy go lucky girl. all this has made me a miserable and sad person. In the bargain also hurt my husband who loves me unconditionally
Take care
2007-07-15 23:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you flirt. My husband's friend used to flirt with me all the time in front of everybody and it was just funny and silly. Then he married a jealous girl and never flirt with me again. If you're smart, funny, and respectful, it's ok to flirt with anyone.
2007-07-15 23:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you spouse is ok with it then why not.... a lot of times flirting is innocent and just for fun..........and since your wife has no problem with it then just flirt with woman that do not care either i guess..........or you could just be real nice to woman. which what can you find wrong with that..........but if you was married to me i would have a problem with you flirting with other woman.........but there is just the difference in people..........it is innocent to some and i have had husbands cheat on me so i do not think it is so innocent on my viewpoint..........but in a marriage there should be trust in the first place.......and so your wife must trust you.......hope you understand what i am trying to say..........different strokes for different folks.........
2007-07-15 23:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you mean nothing more by that than flirting, dont act any further and reject advances if your flirting got you into one of those sticky situations. Now I mean your wife cant accuse you of chatting up every woman in the room, she married you AND should know you're frirendly towards women.
2007-07-15 23:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to get on with it - we all flirt, makes the world go round. Just cos you are with somebody doesn't mean that you don't have a pulse, window shopping is always allowed - just going in to sample the sweeties isn't
2007-07-15 23:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by ditzynomates 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why flirt if you are happy in your relationship? Can cause alot of pain when it backfires. If you are single YEEE go for it. Married and wife approves...a bit difficult to accept that. Unless yr into those kinda things...
2007-07-15 23:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by boeing737 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's perfectly ok to flirt as long as it is only flirting and doesn't go any further. It's an enjoyable past time! x
2007-07-15 23:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is ok to flirt in front of your partner or to joint friends of yours it is disrespectful. A little harmless flirt is ok if that is all it really is..... other wise no.
2007-07-15 23:30:11 · answer #11 · answered by suzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋