i think you can only be happy once you learn to love yourself, make sure your on the right track, and looking and feeling great about your self, like being in shape etc,,, loving the people in your life, being a good friend a good listner and always put the people in your life before yourself
2007-07-16 05:29:52
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answer #1
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answered by Elizabeth (the jewish princess) 5
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Happiness is generic, and is applied to almost
every kind of enjoyment except that of the animal
appetites. It ia a state of well-being
characterized by emotions ranging from contentment
to intense joy. These include: bliss, joy, joyous,
carefree, jubilant, exultant, cheerful, playful,
amused, fun, glad, gay, gleeful, jolly, jovial,
delighted, euphoric, ecstatic, thrilled, elated,
enraptured, comfortable, harmonious, and
triumphant. Societies, religions, and individuals
have various views on the nature of happiness and
how to pursue it.
Only saint-like persons, who feel that they are no
longer interested in the external world, think
that happiness is within. For many persons,
nothing can make them happy. Our minds are as
different as our finger prints - no two are alike.
Listening to loud music makes one happy and makes
another unhappy. Hence, there can be no single
definition for happiness. It is probably
impossible to objectively define happiness as
humans know and understand it, as internal
experiences are subjective by nature. Because of
this, explaining happiness as experienced by one
individual is as pointless as trying to define the
color green such that a completely color blind
person could understand the experience of seeing
green.
As a state and a subject, it has been pursued and
commented on extensively throughout world history.
"Call no man happy till he is dead." - Aeschylus
"Happiness is a positive cash flow." - Fred Adler
"Many persons have a wrong idea of what
constitutes true happiness. It is not attained
through self-gratification but through fidelity to
a worthy purpose." - Joseph Addison
"True happiness arises, in the first place, from
the enjoyment of one's self, and in the next, from
the friendship and conversation of a few select
companions." - Joseph Addison
Happiness is often associated with the presence of
favourable circumstances such as a supportive
family life, a loving marriage, and economic
stability. Kali Yuga, the age of darkness, is the
time when these favourables are difficult to find.
Unfavorable circumstances - such as abusive
relationships, accidents, loss of employment, and
conflicts - diminish the amount of happiness a
person experiences. In all nations, factors such
as hunger, disease, crime, corruption, and warfare
can decrease happiness. However, according to
several ancient and modern thinkers, happiness is
influenced by the attitude and perspective taken
on such circumstances.
From the observation that fish must become happy
by swimming, and birds must become happy by
flying. Aristotle points to the unique abilities
of man as the route to happiness. Of all the
animals only man can sit and contemplate reality.
Of all the animals only man can develop social
relations to the political level. Thus the
contemplative life of a monk or professor, or the
political life of a military commander or
politician will be the happiest according to their
own psyche.
The following is the self-reported positive affect
(i.e. positive emotion) during the day by 909
employed women in USA:
Activities and their positive effect index:
Intimate relations 5.10
Socializing 4.59
Relaxing 4.42
Pray/Worship/Meditate 4.35
Eating 4.34
Exercising 4.31
Watching TV 4.19
Shopping 3.95
Preparing food 3.93
On the phone 3.92
Napping 3.87
Taking care of
my children 3.86
Computer/Email/
Internet 3.81
Housework 3.73
Working 3.62
Commuting 3.45
Interaction with partners:
w/ friends 4.36
w/ relatives 4.17
w/ spouse/Significant
other 4.11
w/ children 4.04
w/ clients/customers 3.79
w/ co-workers 3.76
w/ boss 3.52
alone 3.41
Further, happiness is not entirely psychological
in nature - it has got a biological basis too. The
neurotransmitter dopamine is involved in desire
and seems often related to pleasure. Pleasure can
be induced artificially with drugs. Use of drugs
is not some thing new, it has been used by many
including Sanyasis since millenia.
2007-07-16 08:04:55
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answered by d_r_siva 7
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No, I believe everyone has their own definition of "happiness". I believe, though, that we, as a species, have the responsibility to assist, if the assistance is welcomed, other cultures that, while differing significantly in cultural behavior, need it. It is the golden rule.
2007-07-16 05:45:51
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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The formula for being happy is accepting your lot in life, and loving those around you - avoid the scum you don't!..
2007-07-16 05:37:37
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answered by Anonymous
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yes the gold standard,, green standard is more like it, oh white silk can help-happiness sex ohlalala!!!
2007-07-16 14:13:50
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answer #5
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answered by traylorrandy 3
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That test is not about happiness. That's about being blistfully ignorant.
2007-07-16 06:34:04
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answer #6
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answered by Anonymous
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/happiness_formula/4783836.stm
It looks like rubbish to me tho'
ps. sorry its this link instead: -
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/happiness_formula/4785402.stm
2007-07-16 05:38:03
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answer #7
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answered by Wayne H 2
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yes being born again gives us a real future and comfort
2007-07-16 05:37:04
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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i don t know ,,,,
2007-07-16 05:38:53
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answer #9
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answered by aila 2
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