how do i tell them?

Question

i dont no if im bi or not but i think i am how do i tell my friends plz dont be rude

Answer 1

hey. I'm gay..and to me it sounds like you're confused right now..try and decide if you're really bi or if you're just curious and then think of a way to tell them..don't just bust out with it if you're not really sure in the first place...but if you do figure out that you're really bi..just tell them..there's not a certain way to tell em..if they accept it then they accept it..if they dont then f*ck them..cuz if they're your true friends they won't care about your sexual preference and they'll accept you for who you are. Don't try and hold it back from them cause you're scared that you might lose them as friends..it's goin to get fustrating after a while (trust me)

Answer 2

i'm bi. but only 4 people know out of all my friends. but if thier youtr real firends it wont change anything. i think the hardest for me was either telling my mom or my best friend. but dont say anything unless you are sure. i've been bi for 2 years and didnt tell anyone until like around may of this year. but be careful on the people you tell because if you end up disagreeing with them they will end up probably telling everyone. but just be sure before u say anything. && if you are sure be caeful on the poeple u trust. hope that helped some.

Answer 3

Wait until you're completely sure of what you are. Theres nothing worse then saying you're bi then comming to find you're lesbian or straight in the near future. You get into them calling you a poser/ perosn who can't make up their mind etc.

It sucks. Wait till you're sure.

Answer 4

I agree wait until you are sure. After that Throw a coming out party. Invite all of your friends and family and celebrate. This way you can tell everyone at once and come on who can get upset at a party :)

Answer 5

Unless they are actually sleeping with you its really none of their business. If you aren't sure, you shouldn't say anything. If you are bi and you tell them and they stick around then they really are your friends. Don't tell them anything yet though as you yourself don't know.

Answer 6

If your friends are real friends it wont change anything. One way you could do it is just come out with it like its not that serious, people react and respond to how we comunicate so if you just tell them in a casual way like it doesnt bother you then i shouldnt bother them. Just remeber that you are who you are so if they dont like it then its their loss. I no its hard but thats just the way it is sometimes. good luck.

Answer 7

First of all you should be certain of your sexual prefrence....when you know one way or another then just be honest with them.
Tell them that you are bi, and if they don't accept you then they are not real friends.

Answer 8

You dont have to tell them if you dont want too.

Just come out and say it.
and they should accept the fact your bi if they're your real friends.

^_^

Answer 9

honestly, you dont HAVE to explain anything to them. i am straight, and i dont feel it's necessary to have to explain that to my friends. so, basically what im trying to say is... if they are your friends, they will love you when and if u decide to tell them.

but NEVER feel that you have to explain, or tell anyone anything about yourself that u feel is personal....good luck

Answer 10

jus tell them that you think your bi and if their real friends they will understand