So heres the deal i'm afraid my fiancee might be pregnant but the part that worries me is if she was i know my parents would go crazy on me. I'm afarid they might not ever talk to me again or kick me out. I'm finishing up my last semester of college this fall and i'm done... Is there anything i can do to smooth things over if she is or am i doomed completely and just have to deal with them being mad at me and let things cool down for 6 months or however long?
2007-07-15 20:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If she is pregnant, than she is pregnant and hopefully your parents will in time be okay with it.
2007-07-15 20:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Margaret 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should've thought of all this before ...
All that u can do now is stop bothering till the pregnancy test is positive... and if it turns positive....
More than you, it is a bigger trouble for your fiancee... so whatever is the case, ensure that you two unanimously take the decision...
Support her decision, and if u both plan to let the child come, face ur parents... u cannot run away like this from ur own deeds.
After appropriate talk, ur parents will be ok...
Before anything, see the pregnancy report... and think about ur fiancee.
2007-07-15 22:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shrader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an adult now. Stop worrying about what your parents think. You need to do what is right for you and your fiancee.
I lived most of my teen years worrying what my mom thought, and I didn't enjoy my life. Even if your parents are upset now, they will come around eventually. They love you and don't want to lose you. They may say bad things, but they are just blowing off steam.
You should get your fiancee to take a test. There's no point worrying yourself if there is no reason.
Good luck. I hope everything works out ok for you :-)
2007-07-15 20:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my idea.
Why don't you let your parents INDIRECTLY suspect morning-sickness.
That will make it easier for them to accept the pregnancy.
Also, my parents are super-rightwings, but they were actually open-minded to their daughter choosing to have a child out of wedlock (my sister just has been living with this guy 5 years, and my family accepts that my sister is anti-marriage, unless he's Mr Perfect).
I was REALLY surprised, because my parents are right of right of right in the bible belt (red state).
Also, it is so prevalent now adays, your parents are not blind / ignorant.
So drop clues that she has been "throwing up lately" but say nothing else, and if they even ask you about pregnancy, just reply "she can't be".
Then blame the birth control pills (people get pregnant all the time on pills--only 99% effective)
2007-07-15 20:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by Voltaire's book Candide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is quite simple: don't worry yourself sick about this UNLESS she has a positive pregnancy test. Right now you don't even know for sure what's going on, and for all you know, you could be driving yourself batty for nothing.
Don't worry unless she has a positive pregnancy test, THEN you can worry and deal with it. You are getting WAY ahead of yourself by going nuts over something that might or might not even be an issue.
Good luck!
2007-07-15 20:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she bled heavily like a era, then it isn't any longer very probably implantation bleeding from being pregnant. tell her to take a try to shop your freaking out till you be responsive to for helpful. And, freaking out does not help the situation. It won't exchange something. So take it like a guy.
2016-11-09 10:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by deily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would they go crazy? you have ample time to finish school. You are the one working so it isn't like it will make you hold back on your career goals.. you two are engaged to be married.. what is the big deal? they will get over it. You are an adult and this is your life, not your parents!
2007-07-15 20:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Beeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily, you are just finishing up your schooling. Imagine if she was pregnant just a few years ago. This is your life and your parents should be supportive of whatever you do. It's not your fault if they don't feel warmly to the idea.
2007-07-15 20:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, You can get support and information at a pregnancy help center, which you can find by googling optionline, or call 1800afamily. Please take good care of your baby if your fiancee is pregnant. Sincerely, Runner
2007-07-18 08:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will get over it. It is their grandchild. They might be mad at first, but it won't last, especially after they see the baby, or ultra sound pics.
2007-07-15 20:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋