my parents! ridiculous!?

Question

i'm 13 years old and my parents are so dumb. i dont listen to them because i dont have to and i never asked to be born! i dont like listening to them. i curse at them, however i have freedom of speach! so they shouldnt care! they are so dumb and i have no problems telling them that! they need to stop telling me what to do! i get mad at them and mess their room up, and then they actually grounded me!they shouldnt have made me mad in the first place i dont care. it didnt teach me anythign. what do i dooo. they are so ridiculous!

im not bad thooo!!!! well if you had a kid like me what would u do?

Answer 1

I am sorry, but messing up their room and cursing at them is not a sign of maturity. I mean, if you want them to treat you more like an adult, then you should act like one! I am only two years older than that and I have learned to respect my parents since I was like 5. I understand that you are upset, and sometimes we can do things without thinking, but they are your parents and you do need to listen to them, even if you don't want to. They are your legal guardians and as you are still a child, you have to listen to their direction until you are 18, so you should just face the facts that they are your parents, so try to have a good relationship while you have them...

Answer 2

You seem very immature and ungrateful! You should not treat your parents like this! They feed, clothe, and take care of you, and your mother went through 9 months of carrying you! There are children out there who have far less than you. Some children in Africa get only hot water for dinner because they don't have anything else. Alot of those children are alone a starving because their parents died! They cry themselves to sleep at night! I hope this hit you hard! You are too young to be cursing at them! If they would have died the next day, you would have been soooo sorry for not apologizing! Do not take them for granted, they won't be around forever. You should listen to them, they tell you things for your own good because they love you. They are your PARENTS of course they are going to tell you what to do! How would you feel if they messed up your room everytme they go mad with you?Huh? You should not mess their room up! Listen to them and obey their rules. if I were your parents, not only would you be grounded, you would not be able to use ANY electronics, but you would not be able to go out with friends, and you would have to do more chores. There are children out there that have it much WORSE than you do, little missy! You have food, clothes, water, and shelter! Every 4 seconds, a child dies from starvation or violence. Some kids don't even get the chance to go to school. Be more nice to them and lose the bitchy, immature 5 year old tantrum attitude! You may hate them now, but someday you will thank them. Trust me. Open your eyes to the real world, honey.

Answer 3

Wow, sounds like your parents didn't teach you any respect from the beginning. I would ground you to and take away your privileges. To get respect as you get older you have to give respect. You may not have asked to be born but that doesn't give you the right to be verbally abusive, mess up other people's property, etc. Freedom of speech doesn't give you the right to be verbally abusive and curse at them. They provide a roof over your head and feed you. Would you rather they beat you? If you were my kid I would have you evaluated for oppositional defiance disorder.

I think you are the one who is ridiculous and have a lot of growing up to do. How pitiful. You just sound like a spoiled little brat who needs some discipline.

Answer 4

13 year old hormonal rage.
A man child.
Did you know that's what you are going through?

You're half way between childhood and pre adult.
Parents can be dumb. I thought mine were too.
Just about everyone has issues with their parents.
Why should you be any different?

I still think my father is dumb and he's 82..lol....I hadn't spoken to him for 10yrs.
Last saw him at my Mom's funeral.
But I became mature, grown up and I now can fight back now nicely with words.
He's not so bad.....just a human butthole. It's his personality.
We all have our faults. Even you.

Freedom of speech did not exist in my parents house.
Freedom of "Boot to the butt" Freedom of "Peachtree Switch" and so forth and so on.

Unless your parents are the Devil and the She Witch. Stop and really listen to what they are saying to you.
They have personalities, that clash with your personality, at least right now.
They may not say things in the proper way, because you are going through "Hormonal Rage" and sensitive.

There is no Parenting school prior to having children and I think that there should be a mandatory one.

Disrepecting your parents will only increase the "power struggle" you are trying to win.

Write down on a piece of paper this....
1. Whose really in Charge.
2. Can you sign a contract?
3. Can you drive a car legally.
4. Can you get a legitimate job?
5. Who supplies the goods to you?
6. Who would take you in if you lost your legs?
7. Why haven't they dropped you off at juvenile hall?
8. Why haven't they move and didn't tell you?

I have all son's no girls.
I gave my boy's poetic license to be male children. They got away with a lot.......but they knew where to stop sometimes and they would try me sometimes.......never tried there father..(he was bigger)

You destroyed your parents property and all they did was ground you?
Do you realize that there are parents out there, that would tie you to a tree like a dog and leave you there?
Do you know that there are children found everyday in closets, that are 13yrs old and look 5ys old, that are malnourished and haven't eaten for days?

You obviously have access to a computer. Go google "How to talk to your teenager" and "How to talk to your Parents".
In your case "dumb parents" that won't wash your mouth out with soap or tie you to a tree....

They Love you man, don't give up on them. They haven't given up on you.

Answer 5

One day you will realize that their actions are out of love. You may not have asked to been born, but i'm sure they asked for you. One day you will regret treating them the way that you do. Just think how you would feel if you lost your parents tomorrow, and you didn't talk to them because you were so mad. Just think how you would feel. And you do have to listen to them, you are only 13 for crying out loud. Grow up and look at what you are saying, the actions you show are so immature.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You shouldn't be cursing at your parents, or messing up there room, You may have freedom of speech, but that still dosen't give you any right to swear at them. I was a kid like you and I got kicked out of my house, unless you want to get kicked out of your house, and having to work to pay for everything yourself. Stop being immature and listen to your parents.

Answer 8

It's funny you keep saying how dumb they are, then you proceeded to spell speech "speach". Hilarious!

You sound your age. I hate to burst your bubble, but somebody is going to be telling you what to do for the rest of your life. Stop being such a brat.

Answer 9

Respect your parents! You may not like what they tell you do to, you may not see the reason in it, but I promise you, at your age you don't have the mental capacity to understand WHY they want you to do what they tell you to do.

No, you didn't ask to be born, but do you ask for money? Do you ask for clothes? Food? Shelter? Do they give it to you? They, technically, don't HAVE to give you that. They didn't HAVE to give you life, but they did.

Stop messing up their room, you're the one being ridiculous. How would you like it if every time you made them mad they came into your room and destroyed it?

You do have to listen to them, they are your parents. Take it from me, they may not be perfect but they know what they're talking about. You need to respect your parents, appreciate them, and love them.

I want you to do me a favor and it won't take you but 2-3 minutes tops. I want you to sit back and really think about all the kids who don't have parents. All the kids who have lost a parent to a car accident, fire, cancer, murder, or they just left. Now stop and think about what if something happened to your mom or dad and this is how you've always treated them, how would you live with yourself?

Your parents can be your best friend and you can learn a lot from them if you just give it a chance.

However, what you're talking about, every kid hates their parents at some point. We don't learn to appreciate our parents until we're much, much older. Sometimes, that's much, much too late because they tend to DIE.

You need to remember that your parents are people, too. They have a life outside of being your mother/father and what you're doing, and how you're acting, hurts their feelings very much. So grow up and love your parents now before it's too late. Remember, there are millions of kids who don't have parents, who would KILL to have YOUR parents.

Edit: If I were your mother and you acted like this with me, you'd only wish for being grounded my dear. Ontop of being grounded, everything you liked would be taken away. TV, cell phone, internet, no friends over, you coming home DIRECTLY after school, and I don't care if you're 13 years old or not, for the summer you would have a baby sitter because that's exactly how you're acting, like a baby. I would search the internet for movies about children without parents. I'd make you watch the movie Blood Diamond so you can see what it's like in countries where parents are TAKEN from their children in the middle of the night.

I would treat you like a 2 year old until you learned to treat me and your father with respect. And if all else fails, they have boot camps for children like you and I would NOT be afraid to use it. A month in there and you'll be begging to come home.


Also, careful how you act missy. My grandmother told my mother that she would pay for her raising 3 times over, and sure enough, my mother had a son (my brother) who was HELL on her, but he never DARED to disobey and act the way you're acting. Neither did I. In my house, it was do what I say or you'll get a switch taken to you.

Listen to the above poster who talked about children found in closets, that's the best answer here, I couldn't have said it better.

Answer 10

I'm sorry, but at 13 years old you should be more mature than to mess your parents' room up and curse at them. If you want them to treat you like an adult, start acting like one.