Another question about girls...HELP?

Question

would you be offended if I was man enough and came up to you and said "Nice A** or nice butt or hot body you got there"?

tried this weekend and I got yelled at so backed off..If I truly meant it as a compliment, would you accept it?

If girls are wearing revealing clothing in the first place to get noticed in a public place....why is it wrong to compliment on something that girls want to get noticed on?

asked this question earlier and many said that made me sound like a pervert

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you're at the beach, .what can I say? how beautiful her eyes are ? what if she's wearing glasses ?

tried Hi I'm Prashant" thing and well they go "huh?" . my name exactly isn't easily to pronounce and thats a bad way to start

If i compliment on their suits, essentially am i not lettin them know i noticed their bodies?

If I say something nice its considered lame, what can i say then to a girl at the beach?

Answer 1

girls are very comlicated believe me. though your intention is nice and its just a clean compliment some may accept it as a compliment some may don't. the best thing you can do is just smile at the girls and act a gentleman as you can be.

Answer 2

You don't need to compliment her. When you walk up to a girl that is wearing something revealing, she already knows you came up to her because you found her A$$ or some other body part appealing. Furthermore, a "compliment" about some feature of her body or her physical beauty in general is rather awkward. If you tell a girl that she has a nice a$$, what do you suppose her response should be? "Thanks?" "I wore this just for you?" or "Thanks, you too?" Probably not. Compliments work when they are spontaneous (or at least make them seem spontaneous). It makes it seem sincere even if you really aren't. (This, by 21st century terms, is called, "GAME") You need to find some other means of "breaking the ice" and working compliments into your conversation. Certainly, this logic doesn't apply to men. When a girl walks up to a guy and compliments him on his "bulging (fill in the blank)" he will feel good about himself. (C'mon guys, let's admit it...we are insecure by nature and we are constantly looking for reassurances about our greatness) As far as "what you can say to a girl," I don't know what to tell you. There is no formula to male-female interaction. Think of it more in terms of a general theory with each encounter having its own independent factors. For example, try and figure out her mood, her environment, etc... Best thing I can tell you is to not be afraid to get shot down. The more experience you have, the more adept you will become in finding the "opportunities" for you to start a conversation. Play YOUR game on HER terms and you will get to the promised land. Good luck dude.

Answer 3

First you have to consider how old the girl you would like to compliment is...I'm 17. When older men compliment me, first I'm a little disturbed that older men are hitting on me, but then I realize they probably didnt rewalize how young I am. Whenever a girl is complimented, we take it as a compliment. I know you mean it in a good way, but instead of saying "Nice ***", say "You're beautiful". This will let a girl know that you don't just want to have sex with her, but you just really think she's pretty. I know you didnt mean it in a rude/ demeaning way, but when you say that, it kind of sounds like you think of us as just an object. You're much safter to compliment a woman by saying she is pretty or beautiful :)

Answer 4

I'm from Europe, so maybe it's not the same...

The other day (I live in London, England), I was wearing a pair of jeans and someone told me "Great *ss", and then kept on walking. I just ignored what he said, because I wasn't interested in carrying on a conversation, and I don't think the guy expected me to. I would have been taken aback if he had said "Great *ss... Want to have a drink?" or "Great *ss... What's your name?", and would probably have ignored him as well.

The basic rule is: You don't chat up girls by talking about their sexual assets (boobs and *ss). That's basic common sense, and I thought most guys knew it. At least in Europe. Those who do things like that just know they are p*ssing you off, and they are not actually trying to chat you up.

In France, it is pretty common for men to whistles at girls. I know that feminists find it offensive. I don't. I think men are just used to it, and there's no point in going and arguing with them about it. The best you can do is teach your kids no to do it, and hopefully they won't. When men do things like that, usually when they are among friends, most girls will just ignore them. They just know it. Those who don't are just d*mb.

Answer 5

i hear what your saying about girls wearing provactive clothing to get "noticed" girls want to be checked out, they just dont want to be checked out verbally, why dont u try just walking up to a woman and saying" you are absolutely beautiful." then walk away. you can give compliments that mean more to the person if there is no motive or sought out reward.

Answer 6

a simple Hello would be a good start...Its not what you say its how you say it,you must of come off as tacky,so you may want to be more subtle..Let them know they have great taste in fashion when it comes to their bathing suits,or their eyes are a mesmerizing
color,or typical conversation of...where they are from,etc...just add some class to you vocabulary and you will do fine..=) good luck!

Answer 7

Don't comment on their looks until you get to know them. Just ask them if the want some ice cream or something.

Answer 8

How about...nice suit or nice tan? If you don't know the person but would like the opportunity to, don't be so personal.

Answer 9

Things like this we keep to our selfs

and think before you act

because one mistake could lead you with a reputation

Answer 10

i'm female.

Believe it or not, it sounds a lot different to a girl for you to say
"that's a great bathing suit" than for you to say " nice a**"