My husband and I went to a wedding this weekend. I was part of the wedding party and had my pretty dress and my flowers and felt very pretty. We had sex the night before the wedding so therefore he had been fulfilled. I danced the night away at the reception with him and with friends. There was one girl there we've met b4, she's friends with a family members. She's young she's single and she's pretty cool. M husband thinks this too. I thought I looked sexy & that my husband (5 years) is in to me. WRONG - I saw he and this girl were winking at each other and flirting. They were next to each other alot. We talked about it today and he did say he's felt elt attracted to her b4 but the drinking made it worse. Now he says he's sorry he disrepected me and our marriage and wants to go to counseling. I don't know what to do. I suggested he call her & say "You and I disrepectfed my wife & marragie and it will NOT happen again, I love my wife, she did not deserve that" Any Th
2007-07-15 16:59:54 · 9 answers · asked by davisrd46239 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-07-15 17:00:10 · update #1
Listen to me ♫☆Y!A Princessღ♡!
I've been crying all freaking day and I don't have a anyone to talk to right now. Quit being such a cold hearting B itch! You must go around hitting on other womens husband nor have you had your heart ripped out so shut the F UP!
2007-07-15 17:09:02 · update #2
JESS -
Obviously you DO NOT KNOW WHAT MARRIAGE IS ABOUT.
He took a vow to be with me and to love me. Not to act like he is single. That is what single people do. He has even admitted this to me. So don't act all high and mighty with me you P.O.S. He says he wants to change to be a good person. He says he knows that his Brother-In-Law His Father nor His Uncles would have acted in the same manner because they honor their marriage and respect their wives. He wants that for us too....And so do I. YOU ARE THE SICK ONE.
2007-07-16 00:51:58 · update #3
did the vows not include 'for better & 4 worse'? divorcing over sumthing like that in my opinion is really stupid & i think yr jumping WAY ahead of yrself. if he honestly is sry, & wants 2go 2 counseling, then do that. u could save yr marriage. & as u suggested, hav him call her & tell her 'no more', but make sure hes actually doin it because he wants 2, not just 2make u happy.
2007-07-15 17:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tiff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is married ...He is not dead dear. It is not a big deal. I would forgive him but if he starts hitting on attractive women all the time then that means he is lacking self control and that you have to watch him at all times. When the trust disappears, so will the marriage. Divorce should be the last option.
2007-07-16 12:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by livewire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to go to counseling and is sorry, that's a hopeful sign this can be fixed. Being divorced, I wish I'd of tried counseling before...even though it all worked out and i am happily remarried, i always wonder what counseling would have done.
2007-07-15 17:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not divorce him. He flirted with another
woman and disrespected you at the wedding so you
should go to counseling.
2007-07-15 17:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by georgia_peach 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I have this straight. They were flirting and winking at each other and you want to punish him, have him call this woman and make a fool of himself, and divorce him because of that? God, you're disgusting. You have no idea what marriage is all about. I hope he dumps your butt and finds someone better than you.
2007-07-15 17:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if he wants counseling then that is a good sign -- do that and see what comes out of
2007-07-15 17:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by leslieguelker0517 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should, and if he does it again, then go for counseling.
2007-07-15 17:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats not really that big of a deal, at least not something to get divorce for. chill out.
2007-07-15 17:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by dragonflykagerou84 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you expect someone to read all of that?
If you are serious: get counseling
if you are joking: ask better, preferably shorter, questions
edit: Sorry that I was so frank about it, but trust me, others were thinking the same thing. I feel that it is strange to ask a bunch of strangers such a personal question! Thought you were joking or a troll. Calling me a b*tch doesn't make your relationship any better, does it?
2007-07-15 17:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 8⤋