last week I had sex with my new boyfriend and I realise that i was bleeding during sex, I was thinking that the reason for this was because I havent had any sex in a long time, like months ago, yesterday we did it again and I bled again, the sex was very rough, so I'm wondering if thats the reason, but my vagina feels a bit sore, and I feel like I have a bruise, should I have a doctor check it out?
2007-07-15 15:31:59 · 15 answers · asked by Diamond Princess 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If it was rough sex chances are thats the reason why it is bleeding. I'm very experienced, but occasionally have some bleeding when it is rough,. Also you may not have been lubricated properly, if you feel dry use a water based lubricant such as KY and see if that relieves the problems. If his penis is larger than your previous partner, that could also be the cause for pain, and over time your vagina will stretch
But don't worry about the stretching because vaginas are elastic, so you dont have to worry about having a loosey goosey :P
I would abstain from sex for a few days and if the pain and bleeding persists, then see a doctor.
2007-07-15 15:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by buttcheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be several things:
1. He is being too rough with you. Ask him to go easier on you until you "toughen up."
2. Not enough lubrication. Try using a personal lubricant.
3. Having sex too frequently can cause the pain and bruising you are discribing.
2007-07-15 22:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the soreness to go away and use a lubricant (make sure its latex safe) And ease up on the rough stuff.
If you try all that and still bleed you need to see a gynocologist because there could be something really wrong.
2007-07-15 22:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very natural for women having sex for the first time, but this sounds very unusual. Check with your local OBGYN/gynecologist to make sure that this is a natural thing or if this is something serious. You might have to be more specific, or else some people might think that you're having sex on your period.
2007-07-15 22:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lucifer Sam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. This is not normal. I have never bled after not having sex for a couple of years. You really need to get this checked out and stop having intercourse until you find out whats wrong with you.
2007-07-15 22:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u could see ur doc cause theyw ill have something to relieve it but im guessin it was just the sex being rough.
if its just spotting i wouldnt worry ive had that but if tis a bad bleed see someone
maybe try slower sex for a while
2007-07-15 22:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by betterthanme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rough sex?
Your vaginal walls are tender and sensative.
See your gynecologist for the bes answers and solutions to your problem.
2007-07-15 22:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by docphi03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are a mess. Telling us this. Well here goes He wanted to make sure you was very broken. And now you are. You know the answer to this so why ask. Go to the doctor and him or her look at it. Oh my god.
2007-07-15 22:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like something's wrong. See a doctor as soon as possible.
2007-07-15 22:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to slow it down. tell him to take his time. Don't let him destroy your girly-girl because you only have one. And if he know what he was doing, he wouldn't have to be rough to get the job done.
2007-07-15 22:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by medina r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋