hey ok i m school girl and i got home issues and i talk to my counselor i mean she is rellly close to me but one thing she likes is guiding kids and she doesnt have any kids of her own i want to ask her how come she doesnt have her own kids or why didnt adopt one but i m scared after i ask she will hate me or not talk to me ever and i dont know how to ask so please help me its really urgent
we that are close to each other that she said our friendshipness or realtionship wont end unless one of us dies. I have to find way to ask her this but i just do not know how to i really need ask her this and its for a reason.
one way i can think is try to kill myself before that write it in letter and give it to but at same time i dont want take any risk with my life
2007-07-15 14:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by Iaminbadlyneedofhelp 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
I have been teaching for a very long time. I have never given birth to children, but I feel as though I've had many close and caring relationships with a number of kids. That has been fulfilling for me. I'm asked frequently why I don't have children of my own. I am never insulted or embarrassed. It is a choice some people make. I would bet your counselor wouldn't mind answering your question. You are special to her and she certainly won't hate you. Please don't fret over this. Ask her.
2007-07-15 15:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by moon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't hurt yourself honey. Your friend would be so sad. I'm sure it will be OK if you ask her what you want to know. Her job is to help kids like you, and maybe she enjoys her work so much that she just hasn't taken the time to have any kids of her own. I can't imagine that she would be angry with you for asking a question like that, in fact that sounds to me like a very friendly, caring question to ask, and I bet she would feel flattered to have you ask such a question.
2007-07-15 21:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by leslie b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please just ask her. She likes guiding kids and answering all kinds of questions is part of that guidance. Since you are so close it will be ok.
Be brave. You can do it.
2007-07-22 00:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hurt yourself over this! You say you are close to her - just ask her.
2007-07-20 22:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋