It is really starting to bother me that when I eat people stare at me and I can feel them watching what and how much I eat. How to tell people to leave it alone........
2007-07-15 13:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by Jessi* 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Seriously, if you are someplace that you frequent, and somebody asks you, go totally medieval on their ***. I mean it--really let them have it. Cause a total scene and embarrass the person so badly that they leave. Use every vulgarity you know. After it's over, resume your activity as if nothing had happened. People will know, and word will get around that you 1) do not have any eating disorders, and 2) mean business when you say that.
NOTE: Don't rehearse this--it will interfere with the flow of your rage, and make the spiel less effective. . . .
2007-07-15 13:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they see actions that you aren't aware of. Do you realize the amount of food you eat? If you eat a ton and you are super skinny, the outward evidence indicates there may be a problem.
It may not. When I was a teenager, I ate whatever I wanted and I was skinny at only 105 lbs (5 foot 8). I wish I had that problem now!
Eating disorders are very dangerous and you can die! People love you and are are concerned about you. They hope you are not having a problem.
2007-07-15 13:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through this too...
I can't remember the day that some people began to leave me alone. I think that there are just some people on this planet that have to be into everyone's business.
Just keep eating healthy and ignore them.
2007-07-15 13:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by musicgal1961 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't. People will believe what they want to believe. So just be honest with yourself. If you don't have an eating disorder, ignore them, who cares what people think? If you do think you might have an eating disorder, it's still none of their business but you might want to think about why so many people seem to believe this.
2007-07-15 15:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by lotus4yoga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely they are fat so leave it alone you know you dont have an eating disorder so tell the other people to get a life!!!and stay out of yours!!
2007-07-15 13:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by zay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making a big deal about it. you shouldnt feel guilty about anything, and just be sure to tell your friends that it bothers you that they think you have an eating disorder. and just eat normally.
2007-07-15 13:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by BeautifulBallerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make them do anything. Just ignore them. They'll find a new way of entertaining themselves rather than staring at your mouth when you eat.
2007-07-15 15:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a)Eat full healthy meals and DON'T go running to the bathroom minutes after eating.
Those are the 2 "red flags" that cause people to wonder......
b) Ignore them
c) Tell them to get a life, if you choose to wither away, that's your business, not theirs
2007-07-15 14:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but as long as your taking care of yourself, keep it up...I'd hate for anything to happen to you. If you don't eat a lot then maybe you should look into taking vitamins as well...
2007-07-15 13:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are paranoid, i felt like my mom always watched what i ate in discust. but then again i do have an eating disorder.
2007-07-16 04:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by jessica b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋