well..its a cylcle he dosent listen to me unless i talk about really light things, i get mad and in retun he listens to me less..and i get upset.last weekend he was sure we shold break up because he dosent like hurting me, but we decide to try to make it work, how can i show him that in am VERY happy with him and make him more happy with me? PLEASE HELP ME. oh and one other thing ..do youthink this could be because we havent had sex in a long time?
2007-07-15 13:13:16 · 3 answers · asked by Amy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What you need to do is chill out man! You come off as very insecure...no offense. You cannot make somebody else happy and somebody cannot make you happy. You can be more secure in your relationship...that will definitely help. And about not having sex, if that is what is causing him to want to break up with you, then you don't want to be with him, honey! Just calm down and be more inviting to him if you know what I mean. I suggest you read the book "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff in Love" It is a good book to read and will put any relationship in perspective. Good luck with your bf!
2007-07-15 13:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lack of conversation is a bad sign. If you can't have a meaningful conversation, how are you going to pass the time when you're living together? If he's tuning you out to this extent, he's really not that interested. And there's not reason why you should change who you are. You may have to accept that this relationship is over. At least for now. Maybe after a few years you'll find yourselves on a more even field and will be able to start again.
2007-07-15 21:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, fast!!! If this guy doesn't listen or take interest in you now, then just wait until you're married!!!
2007-07-15 20:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋