am i stupid for not realizing how unattractive women thought i was until i got told i had a long head?

Question

for the first time at 17 and am i stupid for not realizing having a long head is worse then having a huge nose or huge lips

Answer 1

Look, as long as you conduct yourself like a gentleman, you will find more women are attracted to you, for having a genuine personality and treating them like ladies. Not every girl is going to want to date you, no matter what you look like, so do not beat yourself up over something that neither you nor anyone else has any control over. Be a gentleman, women love that.

Answer 2

I don't think you are stupid, but these kinds of remarks at your age are painful. But also helpful in this way.....One you know now that some women look at this physical attribute. Two, this isn't the type of person you would want in your life. I was told my forehead was large, I had stick out ears, too skinny, flat chested on and on and on.....and to this day I can hear these comments. But the good news is you don't have to buy into them. keep yourselff clean, be respectful, mannerly, conduct yoursel well in all situations and slowly those complaining voices will lose most of their sting. I am now in my fifties, and I don't think I really look so bad. Life has a way of filling out our flaws. Hang in there!!

Answer 3

no you are not stupid. u may be a little conshience at the moment but that will pass. when you look at someone are you looking to see how many things are different from other people. you had nothing to do with how you look. you were born that way and will stay that way uness you get plastic surgery an to me thats not what you want. keep this in mind always. love is blind, blind,blind. women see what they want to see an vice verca. looks is only skin deep and some women and men think, thats all that counts. believe me that is not true. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. true beauty is on the inside. put them both togeather and you have found a treasure. she may be very pretty to you, but a plain jane in someone elses eyes. it is what you think that counts. she is your love no ones elses. it works both ways women are the same way.

Answer 4

No of course your not stupid, but don't worry about having a long head, just have a sense of humor about, the girls will find you attractive, expecially the right girl, and you will find her when the time is right for you to find her, we all do, sometimes it takes longer then we like, but it will happen for you too. And don't feel bad for years my husband has called me bowling ball head, and I have called him egghead, and really like you, we are nice looking people, your photo is nice, you just as good looking as the Lord intended you to be, so stop worrying about things you cannot change, and be Blessed!

Answer 5

Please be more confident. It will pay off. I am a women and hate to see a sloppy man. You have to dress hold your head up put a smile on your face and have some intelligence. I am not saying you are stupid. Look for a confident women not a gold digger or someone who thinks she is better than anyone.

Answer 6

Everyone has flaws and are self- conscious about them. The best way to ignore your 'long head' is to stop dwelling on it. Most people are aware of their flaws, but they do not stress out about them. So act like your fun loving self and get on with your life. If someone judges you based on appearance instead of personality that's their lost. Move on, you seem like a cool guy!

Answer 7

i can't believe someone told you that. if they can't love you for who you are then you don't need them. you need to find some one who isn't so shallow and criticizing about the way you look. i think you look just fine, if you look for flaws in people then your sure to find something wrong with everybody. that was the opinion of 1 girl who obviously has a low self esteem about herself if she needs to make others feel bad about themselves and their appearances just to boost her self and make herself into some kind of goddess. stay away from such negative people in your life, you will find someone who loves you and the way you look. some people just feel better about themselves putting others down. don't let that one person make you feel stupid or bad about yourself. i have always been told my whole life that i was pretty, and i still do . but i was in a relationship with someone before who said i was pretty when we got together but after he constantly told i looked bad, i was too fat even though i weighed 98 lbs. i was never good enough, and soon i just realized that he was the one who had the problem, he tried to make me look bad by making me change my appearance because he had self esteem issues. i will never change my appearance again to boost someone elses ego. nothing good comes from that. be yourself and be with people who appreciate your beauty not try to bring you down.

Answer 8

women arent as hung up on looks as men are about womens looks. we kill ourselves to look good for men. actually we try to look good because we have to compete with one another. wear a hat. im sure your a great guy and someone will see that, not your long head.

Answer 9

Are you insane? Why is it that your self confidence is totally shattered by one person's opinion?

We 're all attracted to different attributes. I like tall men, so if I choose to not date a guy who's shorter than me, I'm not saying to him that his height is unattractive! It just doesn't suit me, is all.

Answer 10

Do not listen to others, all that matters is how you are deep inside, how large your heart is...believe me, if you are in that picture, your head is normal...just try to be more confident...beauty lies in the eye of the beholder!!!