Help...my little sister wants to be like Lindsay Lohan...?

Question

My little sister is only 14 years old and she's obssessed with lindsey....I dont like her to be asa role model to my sister...shewants to go to clubs (at age 14) she wants to dress like her (showing almost all her front), I'm afraid she can turn a hoe ar something...We always get in fights when I talk about this...I'm worried what should I do?

Answer 1

Perhaps you should show your sister the clips of her stoned out of her skull or vomiting out in an alley. That's very cool and glamorous. I agree your parents should be doing a better job defining her role models.

Answer 2

Well depending on if you are her big brother or big sister. I would recommend encouraging her and maybe get her thinking about doing the american idol or something of that nature.. She may be looking for fame and fortune like all other groupies do or she is just being a 14 year young idolizing someone elses popularity.. Take her places and introduce her charm and intelligence to your friends and aquaintenances to the fact that she is growing up and needs communication and respect for what her decisions are, NO Matter How ridiculous they may seem... Have a relationship with your sister in the sense of how you would if she was your best friend.... Any thing else just Shave your head and get a tattoo and always go through life with a smile and a warm greeeting no matter how different others seem to you!!!

Answer 3

Hang out with her and get her interested in something more worthwhile than celebrities. Show her she can have bigger goals than going to clubs, etc. Get her involved in community activities that help others. If you are a good role model, maybe she'll take after you instead of a teen celebrity who is a bad influence. We don't want our next generation of young women to use Lindsay Lohan and Paris Hilton as role models. We want them to use teachers and scientists and people who make a difference in the world.

Answer 4

Take her to a grave site and tell her this is where she and you will be headed alot faster than you have to be if you follow her... heres idea strip her naked throw her in the middle of the road... if she likes that then tell her she can be Lindsay Lohan... maybe you should have thought about the fact that you have a sister before looking at all those magazines and girls butts and boobs. Every good looking desired person is someones daughter, son, brother or sister.. may lord protect our souls from all this evil desire on the earth!

Answer 5

Personally, i think you should show her other people to look up to. One way to get through to her, is talking about negative things going on in the world and all the positive people that are trying to present positive solutions for these horrible situations and problems. You should talk to her about Angelina Jolie and all she has done for people who really need help. Talk to her about aids, and poverty, and discrimination and all the problems some people have to face. And that our time here is limited and we need to make life mean something and help make the world a better place. Make sure she knows that if she goes to clubs, and drinks and does drugs or smokes, and has sex and does other things that she shouldn't be doing she could be throwing her life away and she could get addictions to alcohol/drugs and even get aids/stds or get pregnant. Help her realize she needs to be responsible or have your parents talk to her.Help her understand that they are better things to do with life then go clubbing and make sure she doesn't slack off in school because in order to succeed in life she needs a good education and there are millions of kids who dream of going to school and she might take it for granted as well as many other things. Talk to her about whats going on in the world and she will view life differently, trust me (I'm 16 and at one point about 2 or 3 years ago I didn't care about anything that was of signifant meaning until I realized all of the issues we have going on in this world. We can make this world a better one.

"Be the change you want to see in the World"
-Ghandi

Answer 6

Maybe you can point out that Miss Lohan has been charged for her bad behaviour. You could also try to steer her in the direction of a better role model, someone that is successful but has managed to stay out of trouble.

Answer 7

tell her how society is thinking about this Logan.
she is very young though girls at this age love to gain attention and show off their bodies.you cant help it just try to be calm and don't push it.
ask her what Logan's future will look like?
tell her she has to make a life that makes her proud.
if you are morally nice and beautiful from inside everyone will love you and you will have respect and bright future.
clubbing can be fun but it has limitations and doesn't add anything to your values.,

she has to grow out of it.stay her away from these media and t.v .keep her busy with art and craft and sports.

Answer 8

Tell you're little sister that Lindsay has gotten arrested more than 5 times, and you don't want her to go through that. Tell her that she is beautiful the way she is, and she's going to wreck her life if she tries to be like that bi*ch

Answer 9

Tell her that she can start being like her when she performs in as many movies and earns the salary that comes with the life. Has she not seen all the photos where she's drunk to the point of passing out looking like an idiot? You may want to share these with her.

Answer 10

Have you talked to your parents about this? About what your sister wants to do? Probably the only thing you can do is tell your parents everything that your sister is trying to do and let them handle it cause if you don't its gonna lead to a huge fight between you both.

I hope this helped you,