ok so, a lot of boys touch my boobs and they always seem to want to get sexual with me, since i have 36/C size boobs. all of my friends say that im going to get raped one day because i have BIG boobs and everything. i think they were joking but i still am really worried about this, how can i help myself overcome this fear ? cuz i am staying in my house a lot and i always have the doors locked. i feel like im antisocial and everyone else calls me antisocial but i really want my old life again...any tips for helping me to forget about this new life i have?! any suggestions are welcome!
2007-07-15 10:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by Skye 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
by the way: im only 12 years old.
2007-07-15 10:38:26 · update #1
First of all, you are far to young to be letting boys touch your boobs. That is simply tempting them to go further. Something it's obvious you are not ready to do. I suggest that you concentrate on enjoying yourself doing all the fun things 12 year olds do that you can't do when you are older. you will never be 12 again. Enjoy it! There is plenty of time for boob touching, believe me. Also, avoid dressing in a manner that accentuates your boobs. That means plunging necklines and very tight tops are a no no. That way, people can see you and not your boobs.
2007-07-15 10:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by geebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i personally think this question was an outcry for attention... but if my assumption was wrong, what i would tell you is...
...your a little girl, and most girls have this fear of it somewhat... you just have to go out and live a little, hang out in public with some friends, and just go to a park at night with your friends... then after a while I'm sure that you will see that everything is okay, and I'm sure you wont get raped. just face your fear by going out and then you'll see you have nothing to worry about.
2007-07-15 10:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, don't flaunt. I know what you're going through, I've had the same problem. If your friends are scaring you that way, tell them to stop and think about how that would make them feel. You can cover them up if you really feel the need with sweaters or something.
2007-07-15 10:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Stitchez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start smacking those people around the face next time they do it. no wonder you have low self esteem if you allow people to just touch you. be proud of your boobs but keep them covered until you are 16.
2007-07-15 10:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they touch mine but there little so yea ..it could happen to anyone,,,if they keep touching them dont let them ..you cant bee the only one that gets raped thers alot of people get raped but thats cause they go out alone..so if i were you i wouldnt let them touch them and you should go out with friends
2007-07-15 10:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your counsellor at school, no one should be touching you at all, you are not to be touched by anyone, especially at that age. You have to speak to someone about that, that is not right, it is sexual harassment, protect yourself!
2007-07-15 10:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋