Really.
2007-07-15 08:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
??popularity is stupid???
stop wanting to be popular...thats for kids.
2007-07-15 08:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
Really.
How many people like you is NOT something under your control.
If you were wise, you'd work on being a good friend, and finding good friends among the people around you.
Popularity is neither valuable nor durable.
Popular kids in high school usually end up with miserable lives after they leave.
Are you sure you want to be completely unhappy after you leave high school, for the whole rest of your life?
WHY?
2007-07-15 17:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having seen the popular ones , the ones that buy their friends , mistreat those they feel are beneath them, and years later have no friends, are on drugs and alcohol, and no body wants to be around them because they know what kind of people they are, In my opinion, It isn't worth aspiring to, and It's very short lived.
2007-07-15 16:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like you want to be popular or if you emulate people who are ,you will only seem desperate and needy.
Be the best person YOU can be.
Accomplish something.
Make a difference.
2007-07-15 16:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by surffsav 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be so shallow popularity only lasts in school. when you leave school its the amount of friends you made not the amount of people who liked you or dated you in school. Be people who are popular have alot of good things going for them but when that changes they always loose the people who admired them. Maby who should be asking how can you make more friends
2007-07-15 20:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by aaaaaaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress in the same stupid clothes, dumb hollister, stupid aropolstle and then dumb abicrombi. then after you have become a walking bill board (if you are a guy) wear your pants really low with a belt and so whenever you lean over your boxers show
then be mean to anyone who isn't popular
cuss
act like you own the world
now do you really want to be like those people now?
2007-07-15 16:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Whats my name? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to everyone, offer to help out, be smart (don't act fake dumb), smile, always be in good mood, try to be athletic, don't be annoying, dress neatly (don't be excessive), don't be teacher's pet, be fun, act like you have a lot of friends (even if you don't), and just don't act really fake.
and if you can, get the latest gadgets, clothing, etc. that'll help!
2007-07-15 16:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk to people, ask them about themselves. Everyone likes to talk about him- or herself. Ask them what they do, what their hobbies are, what music or TV shows they like, etc. And do nice things for people. Like if it's a holiday, bring in goodies. Sounds like bribery but it shows you're thoughtful. And get people's phone numbers, e-mail addresses, etc. so you can call them and plan outings. People like being invited to do things.
2007-07-15 16:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Colleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should relle be yourself who cares if they have more friends then so called dorks or outsiders there is also more drama with your friend when u hang with them.. but if u relle want to do what they do and act and talk to them.. but that is relle not the way to go b/c then everything changes and u lose all your true friends..
2007-07-15 15:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by rachael1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur athletic then join some sports team at ur skool and if poeple think ur funny then u should show it off in class or u could start skating or bmxing that helped me out in skool
2007-07-15 15:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by hollebackguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋