Me and my bff haven't hung out barely at all over the summer. During school we did stuff all the time. I've e-mailed her asking her if she wanted to go to the pool or something but she never e-mailed me back. Should I call her and why is she doing this??
2007-07-15 07:01:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetie, girls are infamous for pulling crap just like that to their so-called best friends. Calling her may help, but she may not answer the phone. Give her the time and space that she is inadvertently demanding. When she needs you, she will definitely call. In the meantime, enjoy your time off.
2007-07-15 07:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, get the "bff" thing out of your head. Trust me on this, "nobody" is going to be your best friend forever. People grow up and as they do they grow in different ways and different directions. There is no problem having best friends, but I can almost guarantee that any best friend you have now, will not even be in your phone directory in another 10-20 years. I know that 10-20 years may seem like forever to you now, but trust me, it's just around the corner.
Finally, in order for you to call her, she would have to have a phone, right? If she had a phone and wanted to talk to you, wouldn't she have called "you"? You've sent her email, she didn't reply. Let her have her space, especially if you were always together...she may have other things going on right now...and if she wanted you to be a part of them, she would have called. Don't be angry at her, she's just being herself. When you next hear from her or see her, don't yell at her for not treating you right, just say, "Hi, where ya been? Did you get my emails?" Let her tell her side of the story and if she says that she has a new friend or other interests, just say, "that's cool, I was just worried about you, that's all." You'll come off way cool and she'll probably wish she "had" called you after all...but in any event, just move on with your life and don't try to force relationships to remain unchanging...especially "forever" :)
2007-07-21 23:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This has happened to me many many times....
friends tend to lose touch over the summer for one reason or another, but she may just be busy with other stuff like traveling or babysitting or things like that....she may not have the time to hang out or she may not have even checked her email...a phone call is a good idea but I would just use it as a check in phone call...see how she is doing and then casually mention youve been emailing her and were just worried about her since she hadnt responded....and then ask if shes up for hanging out....she may not have done it on purpose...these things happen in the summer time....
2007-07-23 12:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by JustForFun101 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be the bigger person, i had the same situation and I called her and talked to her about it , let her explain and ask her if she still wants your companion, if she says not then drop her she wasn't your bff after all but talk it thru like I did , maybe she is growing up she wants time alone and you should give it to her. being around each other everyday you will just get tired of it, but seeing each other once in awhile ,yall will have more to talk about, so just call her or show up ate her house.
2007-07-23 11:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definately but don't go right out and say why are you doing this. Talk to her liek normal ask her to do something and abouot her e-mail. Maybe it isn't working. Maybe she didn't get it. Maybe wshe deleted it on accident. There's a bunch of explantions so give her the benefit of the doubt.
Talk to her about it and ask her to hang out sometime. If she says no they you can ask her about what's wrong....you know what I mean?
Try that!
2007-07-15 14:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all how old are you? if you are like in primary school it is normal fro friends to do that and even up untill half way through high shcool but if you are oldr i would just leave it because she might have stuff going on and justs need to be alone
2007-07-21 03:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since shes your BFF you should be able to talk to her. If I thought something might be going on with my BF, believe me I would find a way to talk to her, it may be nothing at all, but it mught be something you need to know. Best friends should be able to talk about anything.
2007-07-23 11:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by rainydaze 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should call her and see what's up. You might have done something to make her mad that you didn't notice. If she's not stubborn then she'll probably tell you. Another possibility is she could be out of town with no access to her e-mail
2007-07-15 14:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kassidy O 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe she has met some one and is busy right now,Or her parents have on restriction.E-mail her again and tell her she is hurting your feelings by not answering you . Ask her what you have done,at least she can tell you whats going on.
2007-07-23 13:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's on vacation, and she forgot to tell you that. It also could be that she's having some kind of technical difficulty with her computer and can't retrieve ANY of her e-mails. Try calling her.
2007-07-23 13:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by colleenicole! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋