2007-07-15 05:22:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave him then hit the gym then walk by him one day and show him what your new @ss looks like
2007-07-15 05:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥taken♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have physical flaws and how others we love or care about, look at us, is important to us. Based on what you've told us, It's hard to say if your boyfriend was serious or how serious he was, when he made the comment. I personally would never point out someone's physical flaws with any seriousness, because I believe if nothing else, that it is rude. That aside, the simple answer would be to ignore the comment, but that wouldn't solve anything, most of all, your feelings being hurt... so the only answer to your qstn, is to tell him that you didnt appreciate the comment and that it really hurt you. Make sure he understands that you want him to care about you for who you are and that you know that you're not perfect, but that if he does care about you, he wouldn't concentrate on the flaws, but rather on the whole person that you are.
2007-07-15 05:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by qstorm61 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don feel sad there is nothing to worry over things any thing could be straightened up be cool just feel yourself first see through you unless and until u feel u r fat ok if you think u have to lose weight then its not at al an hard task little exercise and diet wld be quiet enough to slim up the fact is relationships are built up with heart not on basis of fat so be bold to reply your boyfriend if he was sweet teasing you then no need to worry if he is trying to make joke out of you then show what u can do thats the spirit cheer up
2007-07-15 05:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by baharathi p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what made him say that. Maybe he's complaining on the food bill or perhaps you're not leaving him anything to eat or it could be that he's worried about new clothes for you or he's having a hard time lifting you up or you sitting on his lap or it could just be anything. Just try to know and clear out with him his reasons and see what you should do from there.
2007-07-15 05:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one he should never had said you were fat that is rude!! How would he like it if you said something just as hurtful to him? You need to tell him he hurt your feelings and honey he is just showing you what is to come in the furture on how he acts you might want to think of moving on to a new bf.......
2007-07-15 05:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dumped your boyfriend, he is not really worth it!!!!! So what if your fat!? It doesn't matter what you look like, what really matters is who and what you are:go find another man that will love and accept you!!!!! That is my piece of advice, go girl!!!!
2007-07-15 05:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Beverly Anne N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg, if he doesnt respect you enough not to call you harsh things, dump him.
2007-07-15 05:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ewwww hes soo not worth it never let a guy treat you like that its rude and insensitive
2007-07-15 05:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jocasta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg y r u still with him u don't deserve to be called that.
2007-07-15 05:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by AshleeK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh! well u should leave him or get back at him
2007-07-15 05:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by BOOM, roasted. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋