How did you or would you try and diffuse the situation ? Can be a boyfriend/girlfriend situation also , all answers welcome.
2007-07-15 04:28:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No, I have never endured such frustration or trials and tribulations as you apparently have, Tman, Hot Stuff. BUT, nonetheless, I offer some advice, as you have welcomed, Silly Guy!! Just let the moment speak for itself. I hope it settled in on your woman that Other women Want You, as I do Tman...........pucker up Honey Buns!!! (Bask in their attention)
2007-07-16 12:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah all the time, we laugh about it. We also always make sure to remind them, in case they forgot, (or didn't know that we were together) that their chances of walking the Atlantic ocean are much greater. And we usually bring the subject up in front of our spouse and the person in question, if it seems to be getting to far gone on their part (some people will not take no for an answer) If you put to much importance on things like that, you can destroy a good relationship. There really isn't anything to difuse. We don't let it become that type of situation.
2007-07-15 04:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by angels_angelsarehere 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was a coctail server at the casino I work at, it happened quite often....my husband and his buddies would come in when I was working at night and would sit and make fun of the drunken gamblers that thought I was being flirty (all I wanted was to get tipped) My husband thought it was great! I dont mind when women flirt with my husband, I know hes a hottie!
A good marriage isnt built on jealousy! Its just human nature to find other people attractive.
2007-07-15 04:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Damn!™sumgirl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. Yes, this has happened with both of us. When someone flirts with me in the presence of my husband, I just grab my husband's arm and engage him in conversation, sort of dismissing the flirter. My husband does the same thing only, if someone flirts with him, he'll just start telling the person things about me and how utterly amazing I am. Then we get all googly with each other. Smile.
2007-07-17 01:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by -- 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get the heck outta there. He told me upfront that he did not like seeing men flirt with me. We were playing pool one night and when he went to the restroom the other man said, c'mn sweetie play me again...no, you guys are too good....awwww, baby you just need to relax a little and bend yourself over the table more...I said, oh blankety blank, I don't need this...and took off for the patio. I told him later what had been said, and he said he would have calmly talked to the man, but I really just preferred to flee.
2007-07-15 08:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by turtle girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation. I don't let the other person continue to disrespect my partner. A few compliments are fine but if it goes too far, i would even have to say hey you are going too far and then we would walk away.
2007-07-15 04:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by moralagent004 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah...be we were at a swingers party...so he was okay with it. of course there's boundaries outside of those situations and usually oblivious to those things, so he's usually letting the other guy know to knock it off, buy the time I realize it's flirting.
2007-07-16 18:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by The_Juniper_Tree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We were at a hockey game; the guy just wouldn't leave me alone. My husband took my hand, and said "Dream On!"
I laughed all the way back to our seats.
2007-07-16 00:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i was with my husband and this guy was so openly flirting with me. talk about uncomfortable! i just casually went to the other side of the room. to make matters worse, my husband didn't even notice, how dumb!
2007-07-15 04:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...no I'm no married and I also don't have a boyfriend. I lead a pathetic life, what can I say? But it would make me feel good if he did. LOL I love your questions, you always have good ones!
2007-07-15 06:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by pixeydust77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋