i told my partner this morning that the thought of giving him oral sex makes me feel sick but so does some toothpasted and even water if its not cold enough, i was trying to say that some things dont make me feel that good but he seems to have turned into rejected caveman! how do i retract this statement!
2007-07-15 03:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by lezzers2004 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well to many answers from ladies , how about a male opinion?
sex i think is some thing which is done for the satisfaction or happiness for both parties involved
if any one of them does not like certain thing it should be avoided
u have every right not to do what u dont like .
2007-07-15 21:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a big baby. My husband reacted the same way when I told him I didn't want to have sex. I didn't feel guilty about it...but sometimes I felt like he thought I was faking it.
Don't retract the statement. Have him read about pregnancy, and tell him you're not making this stuff up.
I was lucky, my husband got the flu and was throwing up all the time...and realized that's what I felt like 24/7 non-stop.
2007-07-15 03:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mandiex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't retract it. But, you can explain it. How far along are you? You will most likely adjust over the next few weeks. You might try again in a couple months. Ask him to be patient, your body is going through alot. If he can't understand that, then he's not much of a guy. I'm sure you will get through this just fine. Good luck!!!
2007-07-15 04:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by katsue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i feel like i could have asked that ? myself. I feel exactly the same way and my boyfriend thinks its because of him that i dont want to do it anymore and tells me all the time he hopes its just a pregnancy thing, well used too until i flipped out and told him he needs to respect me and whats happening or else oral sex is not the only thing he will not be getting again. He's been supportive ever since that little hormone moment lol.
2007-07-15 04:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jen M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, simply try to make a maneuver. Think of the best topic he loves most. Besides, you're still weak due to your diarrhea, right? I am sure he understands your condition.
Cheer up!!!!!!
2007-07-15 19:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of its all on your concepts. in case you probably did no longer have intercourse and he did no longer come any the place close to you, then no your no longer pregnant. i'm happy to hearken to you're ingesting healthful and workout consultation. changing your food plan and workout consultation extra can honestly impact your era. in the adventure that your back and abdomen nonetheless harm then you incredibly would desire to return to the scientific expert and tell him. it is incredibly considerable.
2016-10-21 08:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by loy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't retract it. Its how you feel and he should understand you don't feel the best right now.
2007-07-15 03:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by DentalAssistant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw up on him when you do it - you warned him!!!
2007-07-15 03:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by JQ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋