Lies and deception are part of every relationship. You have to tone down reality and make it presentable !!
No do not lie to your partner, just make sure you do not state the truth which is unpalatable. Be selective in what you communicate.
Yes, to attract - lying is okay. And usually it is unfortunately necessary. Like everyone is a superman looking for a supergirl (or the other way around), so you have to present that you have it all, no warts and no farts. Of course make sure that the white lies dont show up else you can expect the goodbye kiss !
Finally, the words of wisdom ..... :) .........stay away from lies. Stick with the truth because it endures and gives you strength. When you lie it puts you on a roller coaster where you do not have control because will land up covering one lie with another, or, you may forget what you said the first time and of course you put out a new story but your mate remembers.
Isn't life a *****. Nothing is cut and dried and straight. So many opinions about a small thing and you still have to figure out what to do
Well, good luck in attracting a mate, and keeping it going.
2007-07-15 01:53:23
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answered by datasprite 3
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No, definitely not. During courtship I try to be as open to my boyfriend as possible and not try to hide anything. I believe in the fact that there are no secrets and that everything will be revealed eventually, so you might as well just tell the person everything about you before he or she will find out. If he doesn't like me for who I am, then that's not my problem. At least I was open to him and maybe he's just not the person for me.
2007-07-15 08:41:54
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answered by Yuki 2
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No, what's the point? If you begin a relationship based on deceit, exactly where do you think it can go?
Trust is huge in a relationship. Without it, the relationship will fail. No doubt there.
2007-07-15 08:41:08
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answered by Firespider 7
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NO!!!! NO!!! once you lie you have to remember that lie and that hard to do. sooner or later it will come back to bit you and then you will lose all
2007-07-15 08:50:35
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answered by vonnie 3
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No I never lie, it just comes back to bite you in the ***.
2007-07-15 09:29:19
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answered by ryper92 3
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I've never had to lie...oh except for my age :P LOL
2007-07-15 08:43:25
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answered by PLANET ROGUE-POP: 1 6
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Do you know who I am? What DON'T I lie about?
2007-07-15 08:39:55
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answered by Big Richard 3
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Best lair wins
2007-07-15 08:46:06
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answered by Brother Steve 2
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No, any kind of relationship should be built on truth and trust.
xxx
2007-07-15 08:43:35
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answered by ☆♥ Tinkz Baby! ♥☆ 6
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Women do this all the time with all their makeup.They dont really look like that when they wake up!!
2007-07-15 08:40:01
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answered by special sock puppet 5
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