there is this boy who i like and i blew it, i'm terrible at this sort of thing you see- i thought he was having second thoughts and i have realised i shouldn't think, what can do to improve the situation between us??? (p.s we were gonna go out but he said we should wait and i miss interpreted it) been beating myself up about it ever since
2007-07-15 00:46:16 · 5 answers · asked by choco_lover 1 in Social Science ➔ Anthropology
i just want to say thanx to orla i think sorry if that's wrong your answer is inspiring thanx
2007-07-15 01:01:55 · update #1
d4 you are a typical bloke and of no help only answer if you think you CAN help
thankyou
2007-07-15 04:10:22 · update #2
Calm down, you'll get over it ... it was just a misunderstanding and you will eventually be able to laugh about it with him.
In the meantime just be friendly to everyone and the situation will sort itself out in time. Smile at this bloke in a friendly manner, if he acts the maggot and takes the piss out of you for this, then you were right to continue thinking ... stay cool and dignified in the face of such crass and immature behaviour; after all, you're better than that, dearie!
If he's nice about it, and cool, then that's okay. He'll have realised that it was just a silly misunderstanding.
Oh, and you SHOULD think. Never stop thinking around guys. Just because they like you doesn't mean you HAVE to go out with them - you go out with them because YOU like THEM.
2007-07-15 00:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Darling. If he thought anything of you, and he was a proper 'man', he'd do the chasing. If you case him, you'll chase him away. Play it cool, and think of all the other fish in the sea (there's millions), let him come to you. If he doesn't then you've lost nothing, because he's not worthy of you, and if he does, then great! Good luck and "be happy".
2007-07-15 10:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone
once the dust has settled if he's still interested he'll be around
2007-07-16 07:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AArrghh! If you want him ... take him. But you wouldn't be the first to do this? Surely give yourself some leeway? You're OK, you know.
2007-07-15 00:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just not that into you.
2007-07-15 02:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋