I've been sexually active for about 2 years. My boyfriend and I have different types of sex regularly and it's good .. I sometimes get close .. but no cigar. If I masturbate, I get to the point where I can no longer take it and I have to stop, as much as I don't want to, because it just hurts and I can't take it anymore. I've read up about this and tried just about everything out there but if anyone's ever been in the same boat and gotten to shore, please help me out here.
2007-07-13 20:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Try self exploration/stimulation & explore with different mediums & take your time. :)
2007-07-16 04:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you talk to your partner as much as possible about what feels good and what doesn't. I had a similar situation with my gf and we talked and did some things quite repetitive. She told what feels good for her,(b/c everyone is different) and we stuck with that. I think it could be a psychological thing, now we've gotten over that hurdle and she has them every time now, sometimes if I'm lucky (multiple).... Oral is definitely the best way to get started.
2007-07-16 16:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by maxwellperry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using a vibrator against your clitoris during sex or masturbation.
2007-07-15 01:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a porno, or a vibe. those usually help. either way just relax and dont think about it just let it happen!
2007-07-14 03:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Some females never achieve orgasm babe.
2007-07-14 09:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go for oral. that will satisfy u
2007-07-14 04:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋