when you had sex for the first time did it hurt like hell, very little, or not at all?
it wasn't bad for me, i felt a little discomfort at first but that was it. i was shocked bcuz ive heard it will b unbelievably painful. i was sore the next day though but it wasn't bad
p.s.:and please... 4 those of u who r negative 2 other people on the topic of sex, if u don't have n e thing nice 2 say, don't say n e thing at all (im sure others can relate)-thanx
2007-07-13 19:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
"The first time" is different for each woman.
It shouldn't be unbelievably painful. There might be some discomfort with the hymen breaking / tearing & some bleeding.
The hymen many times is already torn do to strenuous exercise.
2007-07-14 17:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time I had sex it really wasn't bad at all. But my bf(now husband) had fingered me quite often up to that point, so I suppose it stretched things out for me a bit. I'm sure being well lubricated helped also. I was sore the next day, but it went away after a few days of not having sex.
2007-07-13 19:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeah it did hurt, but not as bad as i thought it would
i guess it all depends on how gental the guy is.
just gota make sure the girl is lubed and in a comfy position.
i think missionary is most comfortable
when it was goin in i just felt alot of pressure agsanst the hole. and when it went in it hurt like enough to tighten my jaw up and hold my breath.but that was only for a few minutes then the pain went away.
2007-07-13 19:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by GhOsTy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurt when I broke my hymen, but that was not when I had sex. However it did hurt quite a bit, and bleed, although I didn't figure out until later what it was. LOL! Makes first-time sex a lot easier though.
2007-07-13 23:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only hurt a little,more like discomfort like you said. but it was for the first several times not just the first! good question
2007-07-13 19:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that sad that we have to ask people to be nice? And it's getting worse, isn't it? I wonder why. No, it didn't hurt at all. i think I broke my hymen when i was a little girl, playing on a jungle jim. It hurt like hell, but i didn't know what actually happened, I just remember it hurt bad.
2007-07-13 19:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it did not. because it didn't I wasn't sure I was having sex (that we were doing it right) because I heard the same thing. I have been hurt since, but it depends on your partner and how wild you are!
2007-07-13 19:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bit of discomfort, not painfull like some ppl say. Lubrication is key! You have to be properly aroused before you try anything.
2007-07-13 19:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by bianca_ca777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurt like hell. I'm glad you didn't experience the pain that I did.
2007-07-17 13:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by amaya7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little but not that bad my husband went very slow
i had also heard it was extremly painful
2007-07-14 07:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by crystal h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋