I go to ballroom dancing...There's two guy that are brothers..I like the oldest, Cameron and my friend, fiona told him I like him.Then, he acted SHY AND IGNORED ME! Andrew, his brother, was very quiet, and shy before, until i made him smile....(I'm not attracted to him and don't like him much..too creepy)...Now he's acting stupid around me and teases me, TRIES to make me laugh..etc. Do you think he likes me? he does this to no one else except for me and his family...Now, Cameron!(ahhhh..lol)..He is now on a four week holiday...I didn't even get to hear what he thinks about me! he's been acting like he likes me.(asking me to dance heaps, hi-fiving,hugs me all of a sudden.) my friend, dusty likes him too and told him she likes him..he said he didn't like her and said "I like a girl at school"..but he sounded very unsure and almost like he was keeping a secret...I'm so confused..Please help..Does Cameron like me? Does Andrew(Mr Creepy) like me too? Please help
2007-07-13 19:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
oh, also, We are all friends..He sometimes(not usually, but on the rare occasion).One time he tickled me, same with Andrew..But I don't know if it's just friends or more
2007-07-13 21:51:29 · update #1
I can tell you that Cameron likes you; he is acting shy because he doesn't know how to approach you. Andrew likes you too. But he is immature and doesn't know how to build a relationship. They both have two things in common; they both like you but neither knows how to express it. They both need to grow up, and it's not your job to help them to that. It will only lead to frustration. Just be yourself and if they don't 'straighten out,' move on.
2007-07-13 19:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by holacarinados 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't claim to be psychic but I've been around the block and have lived through a long adolescence. I'm old now but I mentor some teen girls and my "guesses" are usually pretty acurate. O.K., I'll bet no one likes Andrew and when you made him laugh it was so great to get any attention that he fell head over heels for you. Now, no doubt he talks on and on to Cameron about you. Well, Cameron may have always been interested in you but, by your littler act of kindness toward Andrew it's now impossible for Cameron to go with you without breaking his brother's heart.Oh well.. Even if he ignored Andrews feelings and went with you he would end up resenting you for the tension between them. Well, find a boy without any siblings. Maybe in a couple of years you'll get another chance at Cameron or Andrew will grow into an interesting guy. Remember, Bill Gates, Stephen King, nerds make all the money ! Love and Light.
2007-07-13 20:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Clover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is how MUCH does a guy like you? BTW, I think you should have kept your personal feelings to yourself about Cameron; it should have been him telling you what his feelings were toward you. He's been embarrassed by the whole thing. You put him on the spot and thats why he pulled back. Andrew may be trying to be competitive....... heh, heh, he's the one you should have said you liked, then he would have pulled back and Cameron might have been the one to act stupid and teasing with you.
Seriously hon, always be patient and let the guy take the lead, that's just the way it goes with guys. In the future, keep that thought in mind. You'll just have to wait and see with Cameron, the ball is in his court, so the next move is up to him; don't hold your breath tho, or get your hopes up too much.
2007-07-13 20:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋