Somone said this is what he was up to. So there's this guy, and i liked him. And he just told me that he liked me...well, actually he said he loved me. But anyways. He wants to hang out with me more, and had invited me over for the past two nights to his house. Because his parents are away. but i didn't think i should, because i don't want to be in the position where i have to do stuff...just don't like himTHAT much yet. But im moving out of the country in a month, and he knows this. but he still wants to get a bit more serious with me....what do you think of this? IS he after sex? idk. :s help?!?!
2007-07-13 15:25:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
He's definitely after sex, He knows you're leaving the country in a month, so therefore theres no real chance of a serious relationship, so no wonder he's coming on strong by saying he loves you and wanting a more serious relationship. Don't be pushed into having sex if you don't want it, and I'd stay well clear of this loser.
2007-07-13 16:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge difference between liking someone and wanting to sleep with them. The main thing is if you do not feel 100% comfortable with this then just remain friends and it will not complicate matters if he cares about you he is understanding if he persists then he is only after sex and you I am sure are better than that. If you are moving in a month why start anything to have the heartache of leaving. Good luck x
2007-07-13 19:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nikki, you are desperate. You posted the same question in singles & dating.
You know the answer is "Yes."
He wants sex adn then you move away and he doesn't have to deal with you any more.
Don't do it. Wait until you meet new friends in the country. You will probably be glad you waited when you meet some new guys who like you just as much.... it will allow you a fresh start at a new relationship.
Good luck.
g-day!
2007-07-13 15:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kekionga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course that is all he wants. He wants to have a conquest without having to deal with you after, because you are moving.
And don't EVER feel you are in a position where you "have to do stuff." You are in control -- not him!
Avoid this guy at all costs. He cannot possibly love you. He has never even dated you.
2007-07-13 15:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say yes he is only after one thing. If he knows your leaving than he also knows theres no chance of a permanent relationship. He thinks he can get some from you and not have to care or even have to break it off with you because he won't have to.
2007-07-13 15:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem from your post that you are that in to him. He could be after sex but he could also be really really into you. Since you are moving and don't seem to be into him that much, I would tell him that you would like to just keep it as friends. Long distance relationships are really hard, and if you don't feel like you love him, it would be more bad than good.
2007-07-13 15:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably after sex, and figures you'll be out of the country soon so why not.
I would say don't go to his house unless you really want to go just for sex.
2007-07-13 15:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be a genuine guy that just really likes you and wants to spend time with you.. anything more physical than that would probably just be an added to bonus to him.
Be cautious though. If you don't feel confortable being alone with him, then don't let it happen!
2007-07-13 15:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, he asked you to come to his house when his parents aren't there and you wonder if he is after sex. You're a regular Einstein, aren't you?
What would your parents say about it? Use your head young lady.
2007-07-13 15:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother. Your leaving anyway. Besides I bet you meet someone much better and more deserving of you in the new country.
2007-07-13 15:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋