Example: I got free tickets to a concert, he couldnt go due to work. But he said, You can go. And then never called back to even ask if I went. This makes me feel like he just doesn't care. If you cared about your wife, girlfriend, is this how you'd act?
2007-07-13 14:07:51 · 21 answers · asked by JandJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO, I've dealt with jealous men before.....but a little concern on his part would be nice.
2007-07-13 14:22:17 · update #1
I would disagree with most ppl here. From experience, I had the same type of husband. The fact that he didn't ask bothers you and you should let him know that. Approach him about your feelings GENTLY and notice his reaction. If it is the same, you need to find out why. B/c even if he is not jealous (should have a healthy jealousy in relationships), he should be aware and sensitive to your feelings and if he doesn't RESPOND TO THEM, then something is wrong.
Ask yourself, does he usually respond this way? or has his responses changed? Only you truly know your husband. Go with your gut instinct.
2007-07-13 14:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he be jealous? Jealous of you going to the concert? That's no big deal. Jealous of who you were going with? Hmmmm? Sure, he would have liked to have gone, and probably did feel some jealousy, and then let it go as fast as it came. Or maybe he got a little upset that you didn't offer to stay home with him. Once in a while when you have plans and he has to back out offer to stay back with him and give the tickets/opportunity to someone else. That would show him that he's number one and you should do that for each other now and then.
2007-07-13 21:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a first...a very foolish first. You have a husband who trusts you...and that means he does NOT step out on you! And to reward him for his fidelity and trust, you question whether he loves you or not. Some people do not know when they have it very, very good. What will it take for you to feel loved? His running around with every woman in town, never trusting you again? How about a fit of jealous rage..will that do it? Grow up, woman...this ain't High School. No wonder there as so many divorces in the world...some people just cannot be made happy.
2007-07-13 21:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me a jealous man is not one you want. Be happy that he trust you and isn't throwing a fit because you were 10 mins late getting home from work. My ex husband used to throw a fit every time I went to the store without him or if I did anything and did not inform him of it first. Which is why he is my ex husband ;)
Enjoy having someone who trusts you, that's not always easy to find.
2007-07-13 21:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Leann A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think my husband would be the same way. I would rather him be like that than to be a jealous person who has to know who I was with and where I was at all times. I agree with the first girl, don't start looking for problems that aren't there.
2007-07-13 21:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by glitterpunkgirliee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hotel or motel for two days and don't call him, and let's see what happens. Na just kidding, you don't want a insecure man on your back all the time, it's annoying. Just sit down and ask him does he love you and how does he feel about you. And see what's going on with him personally.
bye.
2007-07-13 21:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brownies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just mean he has great trust in you..
and trust should be cherished in a relationship. He obviously cares for you a lot and thats why he wanted you to go, so you didnt miss out because he couldnt go. I think that is sweet,
goodluck :)
2007-07-13 21:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is he that he would of had to call you, he is living with you?
If he cared he would of ask, not unless he puts his work before anything or anyone. Apparently you are not #1, in his life, maybe some one else is.
2007-07-13 21:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should be happy that your husband is not jealous... when you have a jealous husband or boyfriend they dn't want you to be around no other men... you can only have a limited of friends... trust me you should be happy he ain't jealous... that means that you mean so much to him that he trust you enough not to think bad of you to e jealous
2007-07-13 21:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JEALOUSY: IS A HORRIBLE EMOTION TO HAVE AND WHY WOULD YOU WANT HIM TO BE JEALOUS FOR. YOU ARENT SATISFIED THAT MAYBE HE IS MATURE ENOUGH TO LET YOU BE WITHOUT CHECKING ON YOU ALL THE TIME. ARE YOU INSECURE ABOUT HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. HAS HE SAID HE DOESNT CARE?
ASK BEFORE YOU THINK ABOUT HOW SOMEONE MAY FEEL.
A JEALOUS MAN IS SOMETHING YOU DONT NEED TRUST ME ON THAT. THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT DONT CARE ABOUT YOU. JEALOUSY IS ABOUT CONTROL MORE THAN ANYTHING.
2007-07-13 21:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by CEYISHA S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋