ok this will be a long one and I probably still won't be able to tell the whole story. so i have this friend we used to be pretty close but then she started getting clingy and i couldn't deal with it. (she called all the time, always wanted me with her even just to go take something to another room) anyway i still tried to treat her the same as always. she always thought i was prettier than her but i never paid attention to it cuz some girls are just like that. i always tried to reassure her she was beautiful. eventually she started acting different(she started throwing her boobs which are way bigger than mine in my face by talking about people without boobs and id act like i was offended and she'd play it off then she started comparing her hair to mine and saying hers grew faster and was easier to manage. i have more experience with boys and so everytime she had a crush she would always mention that he might like me better id always say she was crazy. she started to act like she didnt
2007-07-13 13:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
want to hear about my boy troubles seeing how she didnt have any. so i stopped telling her when i started telling other friends she would get upset and asked why i talked to them more than to her then she started acting funny and not wanting to talk to me as much she wanted to talk to her new friends even tho i used to be her only one a while ago she asked if we could still be friends and said she was sorry and she only acts like that cuz she has low self-esteem i told her we could still be friends if she stopped talking stuff about me to her new friends. she said fine if i didnt want to be friends anymore we didnt have to and then she apologized again i said ok but she still has to change i guess she thot that was a no cuz she said she hopes we can still be friends when I COME AROUND well now we dont talk but my brother says its petty girl stuff and we will be friends again but i dont want to if she is still the same some ppl say i shouldve stayed her friend 2 support her. well thots?
2007-07-13 13:53:37 · update #1
One word hun, Jealously. That is a sure sign of jealously. By comparing herself to you.. she is trying to allow herself to find some type of reassurance about herself, it seems like she has insecurites.. self esteem issues possibly ..etc. My advice would either a) talk to her about this.. tell her where you stand and how you feel b) stop the friendship because this behavior will only develop into something more obessive, which is never good.
2007-07-13 13:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tabitha. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a healthy person or healthy relationship, I think you should kindly create some distance between the two of you so that you can get a more objective look at what's going on with your friend. Once you do that, you can make a better choice about your friendship, and whether to continue it. Not all friendships are meant to last forever, but it's important to try to learn something from everyone you have a relationship with.
2007-07-13 13:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by lady_golf_sc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGG, thats a huge sign of jealousy :]] id'e be flattered if she was my friend, but of course annoyed! I know many people who will say, your so much prettier than me :[[ & the only reason they will say that is so that i can say something like, omg I AM SO NOT... ur so much prettier ... they just want to hear something good about them selfs so they will feel better about the way they look :]] ♥ <3
2007-07-20 19:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of path not. I easily have been interior the comparable sitituation for over 10 years! and that i'm not with him now. i admire him extra effective than the different guy that I easily have been with.it truly is to not late to be freinds back in case you the two can in basic terms be friends except you go with to waste lots of a few time on b.s. And in basic terms keep in mind you broke up for a reason in basic terms keep in mind that.
2016-10-21 04:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by xie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she admires you deep down inside and wants what you have (jealousy). Since she can't be you, just nicely set some distance between you guys. Maybe introduce her to people she can become friends with.
2007-07-20 17:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Beach Bum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's jealousy.Your better off leaving her alone for a while.
2007-07-21 13:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly she is trippin lol 4reals REAL friends dont try to put their friends down... thats all i have to say
2007-07-20 19:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by petitememe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is real simple she is jealous of you,so she tries to imbarras you so she can feel better about herself, i can see why she is your ex best fried
2007-07-21 07:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you agonizing over an insecure jerk?
2007-07-18 22:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋