I can ask my husband if he wants to have sex and he will sort of shrug it off. but as soon as i fall asleep, i wake up to him getting it on without me or wake up later and find my underwear off. then he gets mad at me because i yell at him. why is that?
2007-07-13 13:45:47 · 22 answers · asked by prte p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because alot of them are selfish and dont take a womans feelings into consideration.
**All I can say is lets raise our boys to know a woman's feelings are important and to be respected!
2007-07-13 14:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by JandJ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband has problems, you need to find out what those are. There may be a problem with your marriage, get a counselor to help you both figure it out. Don't let this slide, take an active approach to get to the bottom of this problem or you won't have a husband at all. A healthy sex relationship is very important.
2007-07-13 21:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by lady_golf_sc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try talking to him about it. Sounds like a communication issue, counseling will help. It could be that he doesn't think you want to be with him. You never know what guys think sometimes. Seriously, counseling could do you both a lot of good.
Yelling at him will only make things worse, maybe try just getting involved next time it happens, it might make him see that you really just want to be a part of his $ex life.
2007-07-13 20:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him to have sex. Wait when he comes on to you. As for the masturbating part, some men find it "easier" than having sex. Sometimes men are too lazy to have sex. It sucks, but its the truth!
2007-07-13 21:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Spanglish Teacher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is trying to have sex with you while you sleep, you may have a necrophiliac on your hands... to say the least, his behavior borders on strange. He seems to want no participation from you in his sex life. Hmmmmmmm
2007-07-13 20:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Geezzz I wish I had a horny husband waking me up in the middle of the night.
2007-07-13 20:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
is he asleep as well? that's I sure sigh he's not getting enough.
on the other hand why he would want to have sex with some one asleep is beyond me, wouldn't it be boring
2007-07-13 20:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Cooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sleeping with a rubber "schlong" to scare him off next time he tries to do that while you are sleeping! Let him know you feel disrespected.
2007-07-13 20:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by vixxen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is sick in the head. I would lay that man low the next time he tried that. Slip him a mickey and then it would be my turn.
2007-07-13 21:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that. That problem is definitely reversed in our relationship. lol
2007-07-13 21:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋