I don't know if I have the mainstream view on this but I do not see anything wrong with men and women having sex with other people despite being in commited relationships. It is very much possible to love and want to spend the rest of your life with a person and have sex with others. If you do it behind other people's backs then that is a separate issue but there are some people who are open about it and their spouses agree to it or find nothing wrong about it.
How do you feel about this?
2007-07-13 13:04:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm in agreement. Ever since I was old enough to comprehend it I've thought that love-making as simply a nice, affectionate social interaction between two friends is a good idea. I think the human race would be a lot less cranky. What's more, I think the people yearn for this more than they care to admit. My wife would not tolerate me socializing with women the way I socialize with men. If I tried she would be absolutely convinced we were messing around. There's no doubt that most of the people I know are in a similar situation, and that the reason is the same. Why the suspicion? Because nearly every member of the human race will eventually get into bed with a member of the opposite sex if they spend much time alone together.
2007-07-13 13:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Robert K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is my advice to you. I think that you are trying to find love in the wrong places, and you are confusing sex with love. To me from what I read in the question is that you need to love yourself first and then wait for the guy of your dreams to come sweep you off your feet. So what you had sex before you was married and so what that you have 20+ partners. What is important is that you love yourself. I dont have a father figure in my life either and so I know where you are coming from when you say that you feel lonely. Being lonely is a good thing because you can focus on yourself and your child and get to know the person that you are and who you can become. I admit myself that I have a tendency to feel like if I dont have a boyfriend then I'm going to be alone..its apart of being a girl. What I suggest you do is wait to have sex with the guys that you meet, get to know them and date them and see where it goes. Also if you feel bad about how many partners that you have...just slow down. I hope this helps. Just e-mail me if you want to talk about it some more. Good Luck!!!:-)
2016-05-17 06:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 6 billion people on this planet.
Approx. 50% are male and Approx 50% are female.
You have Approx 3 billion choices.
You might not last the tour..........
Find one that has a good heart.....
Lest one be the father of two with two different wives.
The choice is up to you. In other words it's in your hands.
If man is knowledgeable he will ask for "Wisdom" before engaging in something he knows nothing of. It's like weeding a garden before the weeds take total control of the garden!
2007-07-13 13:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by WillRogerswannabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When God first made male and females and told them to go out and be fruitful, he gave them no restrictions on having sex with multiple partners for the sole purpose of building up the human species population. The restrictions on sex partners started with Adam and Eve. Some humans are decendant's of the first group and others from the 2nd group. You'll know by your inner feelings which group you belong to.
2007-07-13 13:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i caught my partner cheating on me i would throw him out your in a relationship for a reason you love one another and they are there for you and you only the people that let their partners go around and sleep with tom dick and harry well that's there choice they wont like it when they come home and catch a std from the person they just slept with but hey everyone is different but that's my opinion
2007-07-13 13:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing other people, its NOT a committed relationship.
Unless of course you are a Muslim man., they can marry (and screw) up to 4 women and the wives opinion does not matter!!!
2007-07-13 13:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong in it. I'm a girl who would love to date/marry two hot and sexy bisexual men. Do whatever you believe is right because by the end of the day its your life not theres.
2007-07-13 13:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am torn. I don't think I'd want to participate. It is too personal. But if both truly agree, well, more power to them if they don't hurt anyone and don't transmit diseases.
2007-07-13 13:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as no one is hurt, And it doesn't spread anything. Then there is no problem. Enjoy! The Truth
2007-07-13 13:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's ok if you like the grave!
2007-07-13 13:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by George 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋