hi i have booked a wedding for next year but i really want a baby to what should i do first i already have a 4 year old but wanted another one so the age gap was not that far apart.If i get pregnant now i would be pregnant when i get married
help..
2007-07-13 09:06:30 · 25 answers · asked by clair r 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, I am getting married in two weeks and I will be 6 months pregnant. I suppose it is really a personal choice. My family is very conservative and not too happy that I will be obviously pregnant at my wedding. But at least I will be married by the time my daughter is born. Like you, I was engaged and very anxious to have a baby so I didn't wait. I knew I was in love and getting married soon, and I was willing to put up with my family's disappointment and be a pregnant bride. My fiance is 48, so we really didn't want to wait very long to have children. I say, if you really want to get pregnant now, your fiance agrees, and you don't mind what other people think then go for it. The important thing is that your child will be born into a family with two loving, committed parents. I don't agree with the people who say to postpone the wedding, though. If you are going to get married anyway, don't you think it would be best to be married by the time your child is born? Good luck!
2007-07-13 13:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by kellyv04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi clair, wow you are in almost the same situation as myself! I have booked my wedding for next August. I have a 3 year old girl and didnt want a big gap and really wanted to start trying now for another. We decided against it in the end as I know it can be tough work organising a wedding. Also we are having our wedding abroad. I dont want to be stressed about a wedding during my pregnancy or birth. Id also like to slim down for the wedding so no chance of that if I have just had a baby. Having a baby and getting married are both very special things and I dont want one to take from the other. Id also probably be still breastfeeding for my wedding. My advice is wait. As much as I dont want to wait I know its for the best. Would love to hear from you on what you decide and how your plans are going. You can mail me. Good luck.x
2007-07-13 09:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get pregnant a couple of months prior to the wedding that way you are having a baby and getting married at the same time.
2007-07-13 09:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant and no-one else new except my scheming ma-in-law. At the wedding breakfast my mum made,my ma-in-law said "come on eat up, your eating for 2 now" That was a show stopper for the people gathered around me. I had been so sick that I was as thin as a stick so nobody new. Mind you that was then this is now for you,so have a lovely wedding or the baby first, whatever you do be happy lol xxx
2007-07-13 09:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have PREFERRED to not be pregnant at my wedding, but things don't always work out as planned. I am getting married in 2 weeks at 5 months pregnant. In your case, you have the option to get pregnant before or not. The choice is totally yours, but my preference would to NOT be pregnant at my wedding. If I could go back and wait to get pregnant, I would!
2007-07-13 09:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Elle C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be easier to wait until after the wedding, especially because babies are very demanding as you already know and you want your big day to be about you and hubby not worrying about a little one. If you decide to have a baby though i'd postpone the wedding until your little girl could walk and take part in the ceremony maybe as a flower girl.
For some reason i feel you'll have a girl when you get pregnant.
2007-07-13 09:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
you should be high-quality. I had a colonoscopy completed in the past I knew i became pregnant and the well-being care professional informed me that it would be ok as a results of fact there isn't a fetus till approximately 2 wks after theory. you will possibly not even have conceived that evening. Sperm can stay interior you for a pair of days. So do not freak out. probability is you would be ok as long as you do not drink or do the different drugs. Get on a stable prenatal nutrition and start up up looking after your self. stable success!
2016-10-21 04:17:19 · answer #7 · answered by serravalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding is just a party. That isn't nearly as important as spacing kids. Just make sure the birth doesn't conflict with the day. (Everyone already knows you aren't a virgin.)
2007-07-13 09:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by tweedropjes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Postpone the wedding
2007-07-13 11:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by powder 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should wait til after you get married. If you get married while you're pregnant then you will have to have your dress altered and that can cost a lot of money, but i'm sure you'd be a cute pregnant bride.
2007-07-13 10:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Daycia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋