how can i make up my mind?

Question

one day she said, she doesn't want to disturb me. she was my best friend. i knew she was little angry to me. from that day, I've stopped talking to her. because she hearted me by her word. i feel her very much, because may be i like her & miss her. but i can't talk to her ,i feel badly in my heart "my best friend don't want to disturb me! ". I've passed 1 months,and i didn't talk to her. I really miss her. I want to see, what she feels about me. can she realize what had she done to me?

Answer 1

Call her! Let her know that you really miss her and you want to fix whatever you've done to break the good relationship. Take her on a romantic dinner, a movie, a long walk. Talk everything over! Good luck!

Answer 2

Why are you telling this story online and not to her? She probably has no idea why you have suddenly dropped her from your life. This is just as cruel as the cruelty you perceive in her remark about not disturbing you.
By the way, that remark sounds like nothing to me, a mild remark about not wanting to take up your time but I'm sure this is a cultural matter. In my culture, you would just reply, 'Why, how could you be disturbing me? You're my best friend!' and that would have fixed that.

Answer 3

It is painful when friends use these words. It makes you feel as if you were just someone else she knew and it hurts. Obviously you still like her very much. I get the impression that you two were more than "just" friends. In any case, I would attempt to send her a note or email her and tell her how you feel. After you do this, its up to her to respond in whichever way. I know its hard, but after this don't push, just wait and see...time heals all wounds

Answer 4

Meet her and tell all your feelings from your heart. This may solve your problem.

Answer 5

just talk to her

Answer 6

so give her a call