My brother just caught me masturbating! What do I do?

Question

I know I shouldn't be doing it, but I was masturbating. My dad gets home at six tonight, my mom is aay with a church meeeting for the weekend. I'm 13, my older bro (He's 17) caught me masturbating about a half hour ago. We have this weird shaped bathroom it's kinda like a U. I was masturbating on one side of the wall totally naked and going full force. Just as I finished, my brother came in the room and I had no idea we was coming, and he saw every detail. He just kinda smiled and walked away. He went to hang out with some friends, so I'm alone now. What if he tells my parents? What do I do? Why was he smiling? Maybe I'm just paranoid? He's never been the ***-hole typical brother to me, in fact he's been really cool to me, but still! Also, this is kinda embaressing, but I can't stop masturbating, and I kinda need some...lube. Any advice where a 13 yr old can get some? Sorry If I come of as a pervert. So Sorry!

Answer 1

Yea I have some advice. First off relax you are upset emotionally because a private sex moment got interupted and sex is a personal and private thing. Next it is okay at 13 to masturbate. There really is nothing wrong with it. It is not immoral or sinful and it can do no harm to you. In fact it is good for you because it helps you to handle your sexual development. He was smiling because he caught you doing what he has done. Yes your brother also masturbates in private he just never got caught by you. He will most likely not say anything. If he does ask him if he has any advice for a little brother just getting into puberty. No need to stop masturbating. As you get older you will do it less but right know at 13 your body is being flooded with testosterone and you need the relief often. At 13 it is not uncommon to masturbate 2 to 3 times a day. So some advice masturbate when ever you feel the need it is okay and you do not need to feel guilty. As for lube you can use hand lotion or body lotion found in the house I am sure your mom has some around. Also, you can use vasiline, olive oil ( a little messy) or vegetable oil (also messy). You can go to the drugstore or grocery store that has a self checkout and buy KY jelly it is a personal lubricant. Remember when using lubes you need to clean up and some lubes make clean up messy so you will need special towels or cloths that you can clean. I would recommend that you use a style of masturbation that relies more on moving the loose skin of the penis. The skin of the penis is very special and moves a great deal. Just hold on to your penis enough that you can move the skin up and down over the end. It works really good. If you prefer the more intense style then you definately need to get some lubricant. Maybe your brother can help you on this. Also, at 13 you may not be ejaculating much semen but you do need to be prepared for cleaning up. In the bath or shower no problem. but in your room or elsewhere just have some kleenex handy. Wipe up all the semen and then put it in the trash can. It will have a slight semen aroma (bleach like smell) but that will go away briefly and it will look like all the other kleenex that gets thrown into the trash. If kleenex doesn't work then get a rag or cloth that you can stash or use your socks and then put them into the hamper. Most of all remember masturbation is a form of sex. It is a type of sex not mentioned in the bible so it is not a sin. Like all sex it should be kept personal and private. And you need to be safe. So do not put your penis into anything but your hand, the hand of a partner, or a partners vagina. Do not let your semen get on anyone and especially do not let anyone else's semen get on you. Be safe and do not worry to much about your embarrassing moment. We have all been caught some time in our life. Your brother showed consideration and thoughtfulness by just leaving. Even if he did smile. If you feel like it tonight in private say something like. God I was so embarrassed when you caught me but know that you know I would appreciate any advice from an older brother if he has any to offer. This is the same advice a offered my grandson.

Answer 2

Brother Caught Masturbating

Answer 3

Caught My Brother Masturbating

Answer 4

Just chill. Everything is fine. Its perfectly normal and natural for a 13 year old boy to masturbate. Your brother does it, too. That's why he smiled. He's might kid you a little over it, but isn't likely to mention it to your folks. By the way, your dad did it too; may still.

You can purchase KY Jelly and many other brands of personal lubricant at Wal-Mart, any grocery, or any pharmacy.

And you might want to start locking that bathroom door or masturbate in the privacy of your bedroom.

Now relax.

Answer 5

Don't stres about your brother seeing you do it. He will be doing it when you are not around as well. Just forget about it because he most likely has already.

As they say 95% of guys masturbate and 5% lie about it.

Dude we all do it so just enjoy. PS. make sure the doors are locked or something next time

Answer 6

What you were doing is natural....better to do it alone than with the added complications of a girl who you might get pregnant or worse yet catch something from. There is nothing sinful about it either. Your brother is 17 - he knows its normal and he smiled because it's a guy thing - doesn't seem like he saw anything abnormal or bad about it. I suggest you forget about it; its unlikely he'll tell your parents.

Or you could just ask him not to tell them and he will tell you that you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 7

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I think your brother is very young. Masturbating half way and you caught him is quite disturbing. Maybe advice him to lock the door.

Answer 8

dude its OK. u say Ur brothers cool. just remember to lock the door next time.from a 14 year old girl to u...yeah just lock the door and never masturbate in a bathroom that's asking 4 embarrassment.

Answer 9

Dont worry. He does it too. Do it all you want it is a normal fact of life for boys. As far as lube, talk to your brother and ask him. He could be a wealth of information. Besides he is family and this topic really should be discussed with him or your dad. You are opening yourself up for god only knows what.

Answer 10

i wouldn't worry at all, masturbation is a natural thing that everyone does, yes, including your brother. so relax....though in future you might like to wait until you know your in a quiet place where you know no one will just walk in or appear.