There many possibilities in life do you take the first one or do contemplate on the many?

Question

I mean in the people you choose to have relationhips with, the friends in your life, your education, your career, or job vocations etc........the people you choose to love....

Answer 1

Life consists of various decisions and hence multiple outcomes. While this may seem trite, at least in my own life, I believe it is half and half.

First, when seeking adventure or a new forum taking risks is sometimes necessary to expand. Therefore, though I am characteristically cautious and often consider all outcomes of a probable path, there are moments I will sweep those premises aside if I feel it's a valid risk. For example, deciding to travel somewhere with little preparation or opting for that instead of your intended destination. I've done this occassionally and seen things and met people I otherwise may not have.

Contemplation is my common approach. This pertains to professional, academic, and writing ventures. In these cases, it's good to conduct research and connect with many. From a practical standpoint, if the first or preferred choice does not materialize. Also, though, it allows one time to reflect about priorities and the things they are willing to embrace or cast aside in pursuit of their passion.

No one method is greater or more succesful than the other necessairly. It's a matter of timing, heart, and passion coincidiing. Still, if I must choose one, I love the endless possibilities afforded by various paths. It makes an individual appreciate their own life's value but also gives them an opportunity to explore and perceive things in new and unexpected ways.

Thus, a meeting or combination of these two components often occurs naturally in the course of a person's journey. It what we do with what we've been given and how we use it to serve others and develop as an individual that matters.

Answer 2

I take the one that brings me the most joy and adds value to my life and others. I don't always get it 1st time but with tenacity and perseverance I prevail. I do find that by trusting my gut instinct I'm usually heading in the right direction especially when I have to make a snap judgement.

Answer 3

One of the real difficulties of modern life in Western societies is that there are so many options open to us it is quite bewildering. I think we get better at making choices as we get older and come to realise what it really is that makes us content and happy.

These days the choices I make are guided by conscience; what will most benefit my family as well as myself; what will benefit others (up to a point) and what will satisfy me and my interests.

Answer 4

little bit of this little bit of that tries new techniques all the time but still stays with the favorites most of the time we just sit back and take what we get but every now and then we go out there and find what we think we want moving mountains draining seas makes us tired just thinking about it ah what ever some times the journey is the destination.

Answer 5

A life seen looking back sometimes seems full of might-have-beens. At other times the present circumstances seem to have been arrived at as the inevitable result of a series of steps going back beyond memory.
what ever option you go for will eventually lead to the unknowable future. EXCITING, ISN'T IT?

Answer 6

It is a blessing to know and to realize one does have choice and a reason to choose so.

Answer 7

Always consider all possibilities, and make the best decision.

Answer 8

It is very important to contemplate the first one too, dear.

Good luck!

Answer 9

I am impatient by nature, and usually take the first opportunity I come across, sometimes to my detriment.

Answer 10

I consider all the options that I have, before making my decision.