Why do I only fancy black men?

Question

I am a white woman, and have only ever had one white boyfriend when I was 17, and then I went black (and of course, never went back)

I could NEVER fancy a white man again, but I don't understand why....I especially like Jamaicans. I think it's because most black men know how to be a real man....that's what I like, but it still confuses me.

Danielle (black meat) xxxxx

and no....im not overweight....and i was brought up in a very posh part of England.....actually

Answer 1

Because we are the superior, dominant, alpha male race. The answers these white racists gave to this question is the reason you want nothing to do with these miscreants. We have better things to do than insult races on here. We know how to treat a woman and we are MUCH BIGGER downstairs! But you know all of this already!

Answer 2

As others have said, it's a matter of personal preference. And many factors could have contributed to this preference. Regardless, there is no reason for you to question yourself so much. The only thing that is truly important is that you recognize what you want and remain loyal to your desires and what makes you happy and content.

Obviously I don't know exactly how you feel since I have, as some people say, never walked in your shoes... But I do understand, at least to a certain extent, since I've always been attracted to the stereotypical black man and am what society refers to as a white woman. (Even my first "crush" as a little girl was on a black boy.) And I've endured prejudice my whole life as a result. I hope this (prejudice) isn't why you're questioning yourself. PLEASE do NOT allow our racist society to bring insecurity into your life.

There is one thing that I disagree with you about- You say that "most black men know how to be a real man". Firstly, what defines a "real man" is subjective (a matter of opinion). Secondly, you shouldn't stereotype by assuming that most people of any race or gender are one way or another. However, I am aware of the possibility that you are speaking from your own experience but failed to specify as such. I understand.... I would say the SAME AS YOU if I were to speak from MY experience. Just please keep in mind that our experiences are not evidence of what an entire race (or any other group of people) is.

I hope you understand all that I've said. Please do email me if you have questions or need someone to talk to.

Answer 3

Maybe because of where you've been raised?
I'm a black woman and only had crushes on white males until I was 13 or 14, when my family moved. There weren't that many black people in close proximity. When we moved to where I live now, blacks were everywhere.
I still think white males are handsome and if they had certain features that interest me, then I'd pick one of them if opportunity came knocking. AND if I wasn't already taken of coarse.

Answer 4

It's just a matter of preferences: some people find blond hair and fair skin more attractive, some others find Asian traits more attractive, some like ginger hair and green eyes better, and so on.....I'm with you though: I only fancy black men and my fiance is black.

p.s. for those who wonder: NOPE, I'm NOT FAT/UGLY. I'm a FIT, SLIM, WHITE woman.

Answer 5

Don't listen to these racist coward losers who spend 24/7 on the KKK ran Yahoo! Answers...

You want advice as good as gold. Good for you for not discriminating based on race. So many of these white women, asian women, indian women, date and eventually marry losers who abuse them and treat them like horse ****. And guess what? THEY ONLY DATE AND MARRY WITHIN THEIR RACIAL GROUP. Sucks for them if they would stop being brainwashed and get out of their com...I mean discomfort circle and stop worrying what others in society think of them they might do better. They grow old and realize by staying "safe" they have lived a restrictive and boring life they cry over nightly. That's why you see so many old people that are kind to minorities; its because they realized that throughout their whole life they have wasted it offering ill will towards other races.

Good job that you have found happiness regardless of taking skin color into account.

Answer 6

You just have a preference.
At the same time, youre wrong about black men being the only ones who know how to be REAL men. Dont get me started on that one. Dont knock other races just because you have a preference from personal experience.

Answer 7

Im black and I have only dated one black guy when I was 16 and he was 17......I wont say date because it was more like a friends with benefit type thing lol. I have been dating white men serially since I turned 18.... all my boyfriends and ex fiancee have been white. I just broke up with my boyfriend who is white, and Im seeing a new guy who is...yep you guessed it...white!

Answer 8

coz you're a Black C0CK S LUT no kidding

ROFL...take it easy we all have our personal attractions...according to a scientific study there are many people who are driven by a strong lust for interracial/intercultural relationships..it's perfectly normal..others prefer to stick to their own kind which is also normal...

I'm ONLY attracted to Asian women e.g. Korea, China, Japan, Thailand it's the way both of our brains are wired..can't change it- it's natural

If you need any advice or help on this topic, feel free to email me as I have done a lot of research in this area -not kidding again

Answer 9

Ultimately, the choice is yours. I am black and find nothing sexier than the black man. Do what makes you happy. But, don't date the color date the man.

Answer 10

That's what you like and there is nothing wrong with that; be happy :o

And I know some males would like to believe that you're overweight so they can hide their jealousy lol