Well, okay, I have friends, (that I am NOTHING like) infact to tell the truth, I feel like I'm babysitting when I'm around them. Alot of them talk like this: Omigosh! I like totally know what you mean!!! Its sooo friggin' time for us all to do something!. I mean, they even put on their myspace that one of their interests were "hot guys". How can that be a interest??? No offense, but I feel my intelligence go down when I talk to them and I went through a stage of acting just like them.. I came out of that shortly... Anyways, they have no real interests or characteristics besides that. I hate it!! I hate talking to them and everything and they don't even have a clue about it. They think I'm there nicest friend, and I am pretty much.. I just get annoyed. Alot of guys like them. I have no idea why. The only reason guys like them I suspect is becuase they think they are an easy target. I hate going over to their houses or any of that. I hate txting them too. Its torture. How do I tell them?
2007-07-13 06:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah btw, They straighten there hair, listen to rap, booty dance, do whatever they can to be accepted. I feel bad, but I really do hate it! I'm complete opposites with them and they wear waaayy too much eyeliner I might add! Have they ever heard of natural beauty? Why must every slightly pretty girl be like this?? They suck and they're boring!! I feel bad because I know they're my friends and I need to love them.. and I do one of them because shes actually sweet but I feel sorry for them. One of them is a snake who gets jealous if the "popular guy" looks at me. I really don't like her that much and she always wants me to be with her and I really want to just stay home and do my own thing. Its gets old after a while.
2007-07-13 06:55:08 · update #1
Well, to tell the truth, everyone says I am a beautiful girl, and I have more guys anyway. So I could care less about guys.. but I feel like I have to hang out with them because they're considered, "the upper crust". Thats what my parents say anyway. So really, I don't fit in with that many of people.
2007-07-13 07:06:13 · update #2
guys who haven't figured out what they want like dumb girls, cause they think they can more easily get laid.
It is the mirror of girls wanting the bad guys as opposed to the really good guys.
If your a smart, independent, funny girl, I'll garuntee you'll find it easy after mid twenties.
Just like the nice guys, you have to find someone who knows what they are looking for, wants to address what they want in the long term, and has a brain other than the one in their pants (male as well as female).
Keep your chin up sweetie....good things come to those with patience (Not wait...don't wait, just make sure you find the guy.girl, who is on your page)
2007-07-13 07:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by someguy_in_halifax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys like dumb girls because they're afraid of competition and they're nothing but "easy lays". You don't need a reputation by hanging out with them. Distance yourself as much as possible. It also sounds like you hangout with them because they get "hot guys". Do what's best for you sweety. Get a new batch of friends. What's popular isn't always right. In 20 years, you'll be glad you ditched these fake friends for real ones that you can count on.
2007-07-13 06:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Randy C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in high school or middle school guys like dumb girls because dumb and pretty are code for easy. Plus they spend so much time with their apperance that they might catch a guys eye whereas girls who focus on academics might spend less time with their apperance and therefore be less eye-catching. If you don't like them then make some new friends that can meet your intelligence level. You don't have to cut your other friends off but if they aren't your cup of tea then stop drinking!!!
2007-07-13 07:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by parchessey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off: I HATE unintelligent girls. I'd rather talk to a wall. Even if they're "hott".
Secondly: You can still be their friend, but just have patience. Try not to get annoyed so easily. My suggestion is to maybe find a new crowd to hang with once in a while. You can be a friend to more than one group, and can never have too many friends!
2007-07-13 06:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because those are the girls who are easily manipulated and whatever they say they will do.
And I say if you dont like dealing with them...then just dont...it doesn't seem like they would know the difference of you being there or not.
Let them learn the hard way.
2007-07-13 06:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by M♥R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its time for you to make new friends. i mean really, if you really hate them this much...then what makes you want to be friends with them?why were you even friends with them in the first place? its time for you to find people who you get along with better, and move on with your life
2007-07-13 07:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. They will appreciate it later.
Otherwise, why don't you find some friends that are more like you? You'll be a lot happier.
2007-07-13 06:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Snuffles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seriously get new friends...just stop hangingaround them less and less...soon u guys will grow apart...during the summer is the best time...just say urr busy
2007-07-13 06:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry your intelligence is gonna pay off!!
2007-07-13 07:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to them...or just ignore them....
2007-07-13 06:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋