i haven't exactly gone through the exact problem you have but i've leant that things like this that become almost compulsive and you can't seem to go a day without doing them are usually in your head. it's the same thing as people who wash their hands all the time because they are scared of germs, of course they are there but they convince themselves that there're really harmful and end up getting addicted to keeping clean and all. you just need to make a decision to stop and to realise that your life can't be ruled by some sexual addiction, but it's not rare to go thru what you are going thru. in time you'll get a boyfriend/girlfriend (i'm not sure what your preferences are) who'll be able to fufill you in all those ways that you are so desperate to experience right now...take your time in finding that person though and make sure they are worthy of you. i wish i knew how old you are...
2007-07-13 05:45:35
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answered by bossylee 2
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First of all, ask yourself this question, "Do I really want to stop masturbating?" There is nothing wrong with giving yourself pleasure and kudos to you for still being a virgin. I don't think you'll hurt your vagina by masturbating--I haven't and I'm married. Your needs are being met by self gratification and when you meet that special someone it can only enhance the sex life you'll have together. I hope this helped.
2007-07-13 05:40:18
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answered by Mignon F 5
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Now, your vagina won't hurt, but you will be sore. There's nothing wrong with masturbating, it's actually the safest sex you can have. It's healthy and normal.
The only way it wouldn't be healthy is if you stopped doing everything else in your life but masturbating. That's when you need to seek some professional help.
2007-07-13 05:39:41
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answered by Gigglsprite 3
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Don't you have anything else to do????
For goodness sake, get a hobby, get into sports, or volunteer and be useful rather than sitting around poking your kootchie all day!
There are so many things you could be doing, like learning to ride the rail on a skateboard, or making jewelry to sell at the flea market, or collecting school supplies and books for schools in Haiti, Mexico, Africa, and Indonesia. You could be helping the homeless, walking the dogs at the animal shelter, riding a bicycle, writing your book, learn to play the guitar, help the lady across the street collect stuff for a yard sale so she can earn money to pay her electric bill and get her lights turned back on (whoops, that's my assignment), work on your scrapbooks, clean your room, dig up and plant your vegetable garden to donate vegetables to the food giveaway at the local church, collect children's winter clothes, jackets, boots and backpacks for the kids at the homeless shelter so they have warm clothes this winter (whoops, my other assignment), paint awesome paintings for your room, repaint and put tile in place of a glass table top for your dining room or patio (nope, my next job), sew quilts for the Linus Project to give to the foster kids in town (oh yeah, I gotta finish two today they've been sitting in a plastic bag in my living room for weeks), practice the piano or the violin (actually, that's my daughter's job, I need to practice my clarinet for my future jazz combo I'm putting together), lose fifty pounds (gotta go jump on the mini-trampoline for twenty minutes after I finish this) learn to make a good biscuit with garbanzo-bean flour (Allergic to wheat), trade broken, messed up jewelry and unmatching but real silver spoons to the booth at the Native American PowWow for something really cute like a pin in the shape of a dragonfly or gecko, clean out the garage, sort through the six boxes of books and list some on half.com, fix the Porsche in the garage so we can sell it and use the money to fix the boat so we can go fishing, get a job so I can pay student loans and buy our next house...
And that's just half my list of things to do. Gotta run, I'm to busy to dance the dooby dance right now...
2007-07-13 05:56:23
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answered by enn 6
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Nothing happens and you can do it as often as you want. It is normal and healthy. Most women rub their clitoris and not just use the vagina.
2007-07-13 05:36:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Learn some english
2007-07-13 05:39:32
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answered by David S 3
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you should cut back on that just a little
no one likes a warped vagina
2007-07-13 05:37:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Get a boyfriend. Then you'll get pregnant and with a little kid running around you won't have time to pleasure yourself. Other than showing a little self-restraint, that's the best solution.
2007-07-13 05:39:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Nothing will happen. If you don't like it, then why are you doing it?
P.S. Work on your grammar!
2007-07-13 05:37:40
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answered by Anonymous
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If it works for you babe keep doing it
2007-07-13 05:37:34
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answered by multibite 2
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