coming out story's I want to hear them?

Question

tell me how you came out and how pepole reacted

Answer 1

Please tell me why gays feel they have a need to tell everyone whom they are having sex with. I don't understand.

People who like to talk about their sexual activity make me uncomfortable, as that is their personal life. I don't want to hear about anyones sexual activities.

Is this just a way to get attention? Or is it an 'in your face thing, now deal with me or you're a homophobe' thing?

Answer 2

my coming out wasn't that nice and easy, unfortunately. Me & my gf told my mom together,coz I was afraid that when she finds out by accident it'd be much worse,than if we tell her honestly. she reacted VERY BADLY! I don't even have words to describe how bad it was. after we told her,she took me home and spent next 2 hours on telling me how stupid I am, that I don't know what I'm doing, that she KNOWS that I'm not THIS kind of person, she even started telling me some really gross things which (in her opinion) lesbians do! it was nightmare! and it lasted for a few months - spying, sleeping at my place (at that point I lived alone), controlling me, having those horrible talks - actually she was talking and I was crying most of the times. it was heartbreaking for me,coz I'd always thought that she was the person who I could always trust and tell honestly about everything. ehhh.. it was living nightmare.. those few months.. she blamed me for every bad thing that was happening in our family, she started blaming me for everything. after 2 months I came out to my dad - I didn't do it earlier,coz I was terrified that my dad would react the same way and I'd be alone.. but he accepted me and my gf! :D it was wonderful, great relief.. I finallyhad someone who I could talk with. now we have great relations. but I totally lost contact with my mom, we meet form time to time but it's not the same as it was before.
I haven't come out to any of my friends yet. maybe two of them sense sth,but I don't feel like telling them.. not now at least.

Answer 3

I was 16. I came home from a music lesson and found my mom in the kitchen holding my journal. She asked me if I thought homosexuality was wrong and I started crying and said yes bc I was scared and didn't want to go to hell. I was then sent to counseling twice to turn me str8. I quit counseling both times bc I thought it was a waste of time and money. And one of my counselors, who claimed to change is now gay. lol ive been out for 7 years now. woohoo! lol

Answer 4

I came downstairs with my boyfriend who my mother thought was just my friend from school. And we approached her in the living room and I told her that I had something to tell her. Then I told her that I was gay and that Darren was actually my bf. She paused and then told me that she still loved me. Darren and I are still together and I came out this year.

Answer 5

When i was in fifth grade, I started to have feelings for this girl. I liked her so much, but I had no one to talk to about it. My best friend at the time and I were in her room, and I told her about my feelings for this other girl, and she just said, thats cool. I was so thrilled that it was okay with her. Well, I stayed quiet about being a lesbian until I entered the ninth grade and fell head over heals for a girl named Amber. She was bi, and when asked me if I liked girls, at first I said no. For the past four years I had buried the answer, so when she finally asked it, I said the first answer to come to mind, even though it was a lie. Finally, I went up to her the next day and said yes, I do have feelings for girls, especially for you. Well, after that, I started telling my friends and parents. Most of them said they already knew before I had told them because I never looked at guys, and flirted with girls alot. My gay friends were just like, FINALLY!!! Took you long enough to come out!! So, we laughed, and my friends and I came alot closer because of it. My mom and her husband were cool with it, and my mom was excited because she has just as many gay friends as she does straight. My dad, even though one of his sisters, one of his brothers, and one of his nephews are gay, was upset. Not because he felt it was wrong, but because he knew that I had chose the hardest lifestyle to live. His girlfriend was completley against it and was freaking out. But, I just stayed true to myself, and am now one of the happiest, butchest, funnest, people you'll ever meet. =]

Answer 6

psh, my dad guessed that i was bi. we were in the car one day and he was just like "can i ask you a question without you getting mad" at which point i was terrified, i was like......ok..... and he's like "do you prefer girls to guys?" i went "oh whew!" wiped my brow and said "im bisexual." and he was totally cool. but his last words were "dont bring any ugly chicks home." ha ha ha ha ha. i dont know how he knew either. ive only dated boys and i never really let on that i was into chicks, i dress like a chick and wear make-up and junk. hmmm i guess daddy's just know their little girls well. my mom accepts it, but she says "its going to take alot of getting used to." i think she says that now because ive never brought a girl home, but when i finally do, i think she will freak. but i dont care, really. and my firends dont care either. its really great.

Answer 7

I'm out with friends btu not parents

My best female friend's respond: Did you knwo god create man to be with a woman nto with anotehr man?

Few more friends : ewwwwwww

A guy friends: Fag! GET AWAY

A nother guy friend: it's ok dudei dont care yo ustill my friend

Another guy friend: sweeeeet me too

My bi female friend: Lol yeah i'm bi, *hug*

My cousin (he is guy after i told him a few tiem i'm bi/gay: So how is your girlfriend doing =_="

adn the rst of my friends ...they knwo im gay/bi because other peopel told them and they msot of them accept it and still i'm their friend lol

Answer 8

I didn't really come out, one day I just decided to stop hiding my life. so far no negative reactions

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Answer 9

When I told my dad I was bisexual he asked me if I was joking -_-;;;