Did your parents know and/or care?
2007-07-13 05:02:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
like with your boyfriend?
2007-07-13 05:04:59 · update #1
I'm 14 and I all I did is kiss my girlfriend. I not going to have sex until I'm ready. I'm deff. not so yeah.
2007-07-13 14:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jay Tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hadnt even kissed yet.
I always told my parents what was happening with me
this proved to them that i would never hide anything from them. Then we actually formed a bar of trust kind of thing. Each time i would be honest with my mom or tell her what happened at a night of partying, she raised that trust bar and her trust grew more for me. And now she is more open to letting me date and stuff, ofcourse now im older but ya know. haha. This is a big help because now i have no need to hide anything from her. When I was 15 i didnt rush into kissing. Everyone has their own special moments with the right guy and some just come more quickly than others. I just was patient and soon enough about 5 months after i turned 15 I dated the most sweetest guy and we were at a football game and behind the bleachers it just happened =] . and im still with him as of now =] . But kids should not rush into kising, it will eventually happen, they should wait for that special time so their first kiss will be memoriable. hope this answered your question!
2007-07-13 12:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by twentyalready?! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I will be 15 in september and I have just kissed guys. I have never gone any further than that. My parents DO CARE and they know. Daddy was upset when he got a call from my principal that I was kissing Matt at school :( My mom cares but understands.
2007-07-13 13:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by inactive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity when I was 15 and well he too(virgin also). It was a curiousity thing really. Uh well he and i are still together and I am almost 17 but i am pregnant. Uh no my grandparents werent too happy.(they found out around january) Uh my mom just asked us both if we had. We didnt lie and she said ok that all i wanted to know and i wont pry...so she was perfectly fine with it. Uh if you do i would strongly advise never forgetting protection cuz you may just end up with a bundle of joy in nine months.
2007-07-13 13:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Padme S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I lost my virginity at 14. My parents did not know but they definitely would have cared. I was one of the lucky few though that stayed in that relationship for almost 5 yrs all throughout high school. We are still very good friends. I never got pregnant as a teenager, we used protection. I would not recommend it though. Enjoy this time while you are young, you can never undo it and most stories do not turn out like mine.
2007-07-13 12:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cash, Gage and Jax's Mom 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
im 15 now and i still get in trouble for talking to boys on the phone!! so im not gonna be going any where any time soon. nothing has happened yet but i know my mom cares a lot about that topic. i was looking at the guy waiter at the restaurant i went to tonight and my mom gave me one of those snap out of it wacks...i cant even look at them with her around. its sad but for my own good.
2007-07-13 23:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ashley♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 15 I lost my virginity, although now I wish I would have waited until I met my husband. I told my mother and she wasnt happy about it but instead of over reacting, she took me to the doctors and got me on birth control.
I dont understand why people have given me -marks... I made a choice in life that EVERY PERSON makes, I opened the lines on communication with my mother by telling her and then I got on birth control to make sure I didnt become a mother at a young age. Why does that deserve - marks? Grow up people... If shes gonna have sex theres NOTHING anyone can do to stop her, atleast she can be smart about it and get on birth control because condoms dont always work!
2007-07-13 12:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nowhere- I was a late bloomer and didn't date at all in HS. My parents are really conservative, so likely would have been very unhappy about any sexual encounters at that age. But I would have been careful to keep them from knowing, in any event :)
2007-07-13 12:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
everthing but lose my virginity *did that at 16* no my parents did not know because my parents would absoutly flip. they know i have a boyfriend just not that we have really done anything. im sure they suspect something since we've been dating for little over a year. but ive not directly said anythign to them.
2007-07-13 15:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately , my parents would whip me if I did anything with boys .
At the time it sucked , but several friends ended up welfare mommas and their lives sucked more then . . .
So , unless you have about $3000 a month in independent income ( Not from parents who would cut you off ) to support a baby . . .
Keep your boy contact to buddies and prom dates .
( although some girls are too weak to defend themselves at prom too and still end up pg )
Did your school cover all the STD issues and what you need to do to NOT get an STD ? ( in addition to how to Not get pg )
2007-07-13 12:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by kate 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Lost my virginity. Did everything else when I was 14.
My mum knew I had a bf, and of course she cared but she couldnt really keep us apart! Honestly, no matter how much you trust your daughter.. she WILL want to experience things! I'd keep my eye on her if you don't want to become a grandma!
2007-07-13 12:07:32 · answer #11 · answered by sexii_becca 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋