you had your child and your friend named this baby. in 2 years of your relationship something happens you have her watch your baby knowing that she doesn't like children when you pick your baby up she has marks on her. would your or wouldn't you not forgive this person and give her a second chance?
2007-07-13 04:37:51 · 11 answers · asked by warlord m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear Warlord,
I wonder why your friend would dare such a feat after knowing your name (Warlord).
Anyways Please forgive by all means. If you've lost anything, God is the reason you did not loose everything. The baby is still alive atleast.
Warlord, Please next time be more cautious. Do not entrust your baby to babyhaters. What did you expect? So no second chance.
I will forgive such a person but will not give such a person a second chance.
Dont forget, to forgive is divine.
Nuch
2007-07-13 05:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nuch the Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on whether the marks were accidental or if there is just something that doesn't seem right. If it was not something she did out of meanness or spite, I would give another chance. If it WAS intentional and hurt the child, tell your friend that unless she receives help, you won't be bringing your child around her again!
2007-07-13 12:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by mhbhbh06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! Did she say what the marks are from? Why would you think of giving her another chance to hurt your child? Nobody needs a babysitter that bad.
2007-07-13 11:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY would I forgive her, I would go put marks on her! Also, as far as that goes, if I knew she didn't like kids, I would have never left my child with her to begin with, nor been friends with her.
2007-07-13 12:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive.
no 2nd chance unless the reasons and issues are resolved and the situation is comfronted. Then I would have to weigh the benefits and consquences and make a decision on whether a 2nd chance is an option.
2007-07-13 11:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by m b q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her and keep her as a friend, but don't let her watch the kids anymore.
2007-07-13 11:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let them around my children if I feel like they are abusive. Your child has no way of protecting it self and that's your responsibitiy. No friend is worth having if they abuse your children.
2007-07-13 11:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tennessee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take pictures,call the cops,DO Not leave your baby alone with this person again.What is wrong with her,did you know that you can go to jail also for leaving your baby with her if you know she is abusive.
2007-07-13 11:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by m_l_p73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not and will not ever forgive that person if i saw marks on my own child...the trust for that person will be no more
2007-07-13 11:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcours not!!!who would want there baby to be with soemone abusive???
2007-07-13 11:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋