my lover is always sucking my breast during sex...and he is biting very much ,,and it is paining much ...i cant bear it ya...i cant stop him at tat time...wat to do ya...help//////
2007-07-13 04:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If he is your lover then you shouldn't have any problem telling him that him doing that hurts more than feels good. Just tell him you can't handle and would like for him not to do it anymore. If you are in a relationship where you are having sex you should be close enough to tell each other what you like and don't like!!
2007-07-13 04:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by r_u_kidding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him that it hurts and to stop..if he respects you then he will. It is common that men tend to "get outta control" sometimes but once you tell them that it is painful, and it hurts he should stop.
are u pegnant as well, cause you posted in thepregnancy section....if so, maybe that is why because he did this before you were prego and it never hurt...men don't fully understand what hurts and when while pregnant...he's not a mind reader..you gotta tell him.
2007-07-13 04:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by CJ&Drewsmomma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't wait for sex to talk to him about it. Tell him that you're breasts are sensitive right now due to your pregnancy, and he has to be much more gentle right now.
He can't read your mind. He doesn't know it hurts unless you tell him.
2007-07-13 04:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by sparki777 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant you stop him? All you need to do is talk to him and let him know how you feel, Im sure if he knew that you were in pain that he would stop doing it, because most guys just want to please us women not hurt us.
2007-07-13 04:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it hurts you, and that if he doesn't stop, you will wear a cheap, heavy bra with inserts the next time. Let him chew on the foam rubber.
2007-07-13 04:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by TitoBob 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh.... sit down and talk with him and tell him what pain you are in. If he doesn't respect and stop according to your wishes then ban him lol.
2007-07-13 04:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by oldone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him to treat you that way, TELL him! If he do not respect you, then you should really talk to him, face to face.
2007-07-13 04:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by shopaholic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, how does he know it hurts you if you don't say anything, he isn't a mind reader.
2007-07-13 04:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you pregnant???
if not. wrong forum. go somewhere else if you cant at least tell ur partner hes hurting u.
2007-07-13 04:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want me to do? Talk to him for you? Tell him to leave your boobs alone.
2007-07-13 04:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋