if i were to find a girls number in my husband's phone, what must i do, suppose they are having an affair?

Answer 1

confront him and ask him bowt it maybe they are just friends and your just being paranoid or if that duznt satisfy you enough then maybe you could get some1 to check her out or summin

Answer 2

Well, did you actually call back the number to make sure it was for a woman?? If you did and a woman answered it, then you must INVESTIGATE before accusing!! Trust me, I've been burned and consider myself pretty good now! LOL. Ok..so if it was a woman that answered you have 2 options for the next step...if the number is a landline (house phone) go to http://www.whitepages.com/reverse_phone. Enter in the number and see what the name and address is for the number. If it is for a woman..well now you have the address. You can pass by when he's not home and you think he may be there...just don't do anything drastic! If the number is a cell phone number then you can check with your cell phone provider to get a copy of the detailed billing. You won't have access to the name and address of the woman but you will be able to see how often they talk, the time, and how long. That may help you recall where he said he was when the calls were taking place. It always sucks to have those feelings, but you have to find out in a subtle manner. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. After you are sure you have the correct info. then you can confront him. It may even help to have some of the evidence you gathered to show him just incase he denies it. Trust me, once you slam the detailed bill on the table with her number highlited several times...he'll know he can't lie anymore. I really hope this situation turns out ok but it never hurts to look in to it for your peace of mind! You can't fully be devoted to a relationship if you have any doubts of his faithfulness!! GOOD LUCK.

Answer 3

It COULD be an affair. But not necessarily. It could be a co-worker he calls for work-related stuff. Could be a doctor. A cousin. The girl who made the present he bought you for your birthday. Who knows? Do you have another reason to think he is cheating on you? Is she in his "five?" Has he been talking to her a lot? Why did you look at his phone? Were you suspicous? If you have other reasons to think he is having an affair, then maybe that is the girl. Otherwise, you may be being paranoid. Ask him who she is and see if he stutters or stumbles in his speech or gets really defensive. If he does, you probably have a cheater on your hands. Or you COULD call the girl and ask her! If he IS having an affair, she might not even know he is married! Time to start asking some questions.

Answer 4

Well there could be a million other reasons for a girl's number to be in his phone besides an affair. If you think he is having an affair than talk to him about it and don't snoop because if he isn't having an affair and he catches you snooping....well that can lead to a bunch of other problems. You should be able to tell if he is telling the truth in the way that he answers the question. Good Luck!

Answer 5

First ask him about it. Since you're married you have to be open and honest with each other before becoming suspicious...unless of course he's cheated before. In which case you should have left. But if he seems like he's lying or holding something back when you discuss this than you may have grounds to believe he's cheating. Pay attention to how long he spends at work (as they could have met there) and pay attention to little things. Like if he starts saying he wants to go out with "the guys" more often, he suddenly works later, he has to take private calls in the other room, he isn't interested (sexually) in you any longer. These could be signs that he's cheating. If you wish to further continue to investigate, I would suggest hiring a private investigator to follow him. And DON'T tell anyone that you're doing this...I'm not sure if it's legal. I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 6

NO! that is the biggest mistake...if you do not have proof do not accuse him of an affair. What I will do is have someone else call it. Also, if your husband is not acting different that usual then don't worry about it. A woman knows when her man is up to something and if you do feel like he is cheating just ask him....his first reaction will tell you if he is or not.

Answer 7

I'd ask him about it. I found a number one time and called is as a blocked call she at first didn't answer so I left her a message letting her know I found her number in my husbands phone and wanted to know how she knew him. The next time I called she did answer and found out they had met at a bar He had went out with his friend who was married with 3 kids and we had 2 kids and I was pregnant with our 3rd. So after him denying that he had met anyone when he went out I let him know that I had called and talked to his little friend Carrie and then he said oh well it doesn't matter she's a lesbian. Another lie of course. MEN S*U*C*K*!

Answer 8

I just counted, and there are 13 girls' numbers in my cell phone. It may shock you to hear this, but I'm having an affair with none of them. A few are relatives, a few are co-workers, and a few are friends of my daughter's (who doesn't have her own cell phone and likes to use mine sometimes). I wonder why you are so paranoid.

Answer 9

Just ask him about this very calmly and if there is a real affair then you take your own decision taking into consideration about family, children, society, your love for him etc. Since you are the best person to decide future actions.

Answer 10

Suppose they are not having an affair. Don't you trust your husband. I would give a benefit of a doubt.

Answer 11

why do people in relationships walk these fences!!! If you are married or in a serious relationship DO NOT put yourself in a position that could turn into an affair, or "accident", they "it just happened" doesn't fly. Confront your husband and save the trust!