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2007-07-13 01:59:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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Stop believing your self esteem is so damn important. People playing the self esteem ego game never really become winners. They are among the people who keep chasing after improving their self esteem.

Instead, become more aware of what it means to be human and not some kind of elitist like all the "winners" of society. What many people call a "good" self esteem is actually responsible for being too overly optimistic, having too much confidence, and eventually thinking too highly of yourself. By focusing on what it means to be human you can stop the underlying competition with others that is the real cause of low self esteem. The world is not simply filled with society's winners and losers. That's a game. When you look in the mirror, tell yourself you are valuable simply by virtue of being human, and if others around you don't understand this that's their problem.

2007-07-13 02:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by What I Say 3 · 3 0

when you feel a little down just say to yourself i am good or i am wonderful a few times you have to be convinced that you are good or your confidence and self esteem will be low belief is a strong thing....... especially self belief....

2007-07-13 09:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

hi....
hmmm.
let me see....
when i have self esteem....

1) i would pray to God (if u r a Christian)
coz he will be sure to answer ur prayer

2) always think about the positive!!
4get the negative!!
*only good people will realize this

3) if u think u are ugly, always remember that it is the inside that counts....
NOT THE LOOKS!!

i hope this rily helps u!!
GOD BLESS U!!!

2007-07-13 09:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by love~freak 1 · 1 0

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2007-07-13 09:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by vazsingh_soorma 4 · 1 0

be yourself and do not feel low in self esteem
make sure you are clean and happy.
then project yourself positively

2007-07-13 09:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Michael M 7 · 1 0

Take an assertive class.

2007-07-13 09:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Topez 6 · 1 0

tell yourself you can-telling yourself that you can't do something straight away is a negative attitude..Say you can first off and give it a go.someone told me you are only a failure if you fail to try in life............and its true

2007-07-13 09:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by gilmore 1 · 1 0

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