My problem start from age 25. When I was 25 years old, I refused one marriage proposal.My all family was willing for that marriage. After that my family find my ex husband and finally I marry that person. I suffer in my marriage till 6 years.I have no kids. In between I work hard in my studies. I want to settle in good job.Now I am 33 years old. I took divorce with my husband. I am living with my mom and brothers. I think that from 10 years I am suffering from problems. When they will end? Finally my hands are empty.I have no kid, not any family and married life, not a very good job.I always pray to God please end my this bad period. I have tired. My sister in-law has also dispute when she marry with my brother. But God give her a son. Now my brother and sister in-law are happy. She always speak bad words for me. She is settled in her married life.She told you are bad thats why your husband leave you and all. I feel bad.Now brother is also in her faviour. She is queen of her home.Poon
2007-07-13 01:04:18 · 6 answers · asked by poonam s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God has not chosen bad for you...we make wrong choices sometimes and have to deal with the consequences of the choices we make.
God wants only good for us. Don't give up, keep praying...God has something special for you.
Definitely don't listen to those in your family who want to make you feel bad about your situation or your life...God will frown on them for that.
We are to be a blessing to each other...especially if family...so they are in the wrong there.
Keep the faith...God loves you and wants good for you!
be cool...
2007-07-13 01:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Poonam, I understand from your story that you are finding life very sad! My heart goes out to you.
I dont have all the answers you seek, but I do know that God is good. I know that if he has given us trials in our life it is only because He knows that we are strong enough to deal with them. I too was married once before, my marriage was very destructive and hurtful and so i left. I believed for a long time that I would be alone, but God sent to me my new husband who is a wonderful man. Do not listen to your sister-in-law when she is being hurtful to you, you must remember that God loves us all equally, He loves those with children and without! Perhaps there is a different path ahead for you than for her. You are studying now? Maybe you are destined to become a great career women in your field and be able to provide a good life for you and your family!
DONT GIVE UP ON YOU OR YOUR DREAMS EVER!
Believe in yourself and the greater good of God, one day the answers will become clear to you.
Until then I will pray for you in my prayers and remember to keep God close at all time, then trial will not seem so big.
Good luck my friend
2007-07-16 06:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by *Lee*D* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than sitting here and feeling sorry for yourself, do something about it. For instance, you say that you are not happy with your current job, well, look for a better job that will allow you to do something that you are really interested in doing. If you are feeling as bad as you describe, go and talk to someone that may be able to help you figure out why you are feeling this way and what you can do to improve your life. There is no magic pill or wand that anyone can give you to make your life be what you want it to be. You are going to have to make whatever changes need to be made in order to be happy. One day you will meet someone that makes you very happy and you can have that relationship that you have always dreamed of.
2007-07-13 08:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop blaming God.....and look at what part you've played in things happening to you.....and how you're being jealous of your family members.
Focus on you and how you can make better choices for yourself.
2007-07-13 08:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start walking (devotedly walking) everyday in a more positive direction. start taking the proper steps to change your circumstances. start in your thoughts. if you pray, pray out loud. but not in a pity prayer, set things in a positive direction. say thank you for your new job, thank you for my new attitude, thank you for my new lease on life...even if its not there yet. speak out the good things you want to happen, and then walk the correct path to your new happiness.
blessings to you
2007-07-13 08:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by bishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
again poon, MOVE THE HELL ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-17 06:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋