My problem start from age 25. When I was 25 years old, I refused one marriage proposal.My all family was willing for that marriage. After that my family find my ex husband and finally I marry that person. I suffer in my marriage till 6 years.I have no kids. In between I work hard in my studies. I want to settle in good job.Now I am 33 years old. I took divorce with my husband. I am living with my mom and brothers. I think that from 10 years I am suffering from problems. When they will end? Finally my hands are empty.I have no kid, not any family and married life, not a very good job.I always pray to God please end my this bad period. I have tired. My sister in-law has also dispute when she marry with my brother. But God give her a son. Now my brother and sister in-law are happy. She always speak bad words for me. She is settled in her married life.She told you are bad thats why your husband leave you and all. I feel bad.Now brother is also in her faviour. She is queen of her home.Poon
2007-07-13 01:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by poonam s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
God didn't just choose you for sorrow. If you continue to pray to God, he'll give you an answer. My family isn't doing so well either with money, and with three kids. Still, we continue to pray to God, to provide and bless our family.
Pray to God that he will give you the man you were meant to have, that you'll have kids like you've always wanted, and that he'll give you strength to keep going. God doesn't just dump people in sorrow.
He puts us through tests, and we pray to God to help us pass his tests. He blesses all who follow him. Don't stop praying to God.
2007-07-13 01:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by XDefineDX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes , if you just listen to what everyone else has to say , you lose the trust in your own strength . this leads you nowhere . first of all I think that you should not listen to them no more . even that they are family .
find and follow your own path , trusting in GOD is the best way , but he can only guide you , it is you who has to decide .
leave that house and start a new life , away from the past !!
try to live " with " your past not " from" your past !!!!
2007-07-13 08:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by gabi3kyu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dwelling on the past and your exes family. move forward with your life, so this marriage was a mistake! who cares? we all make them at some time in our lives and hopefully learn from them, go out and start meeting new people and have a little fun. don't give them a second thought....MOVE ON!!!!!!
2007-07-17 06:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well poon you feel sad ,get off your bum and start living,treat every second of every day like its your last ,dont worry about your inlaws or your outlaws,and dont bother god ,he has his work cut out with more important things to worry about ,so as my dear old mum would say'' grab the bull by the horns ,and go in the direction you want'' good things will come
2007-07-13 08:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poonam - send me a msg. mcdreamysfan@yahoo.com - seriously, I read all your questions and I can help you. I am in the same situation as you but my life is not depressing anymore. I can really help if you want it. :)
Good luck and hope you feel better
2007-07-13 11:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Centered 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand your question but i think that stay in faith with god and one day he will answer your prayer. as for your sister in-law, you should study hard and buy your own house or something to show off with.
2007-07-13 08:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋