To help someone you know only to have that person call on you for everything? The more you do the more is expected?
2007-07-12 23:40:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes, all the time because I had a hard time with my boundaries,tried everything and once you say "NO" then that person will leave you alone the magic word is once again"NO",say it with me now..."NO"...
just say "NO"...ok..I know its hard but once
you try it you will like it,,=-)
2007-07-13 03:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Saw Dust♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I had to deal with that with a friend, and the more I helped him, the more he wanted until I just said bye bye, no more, you are on your own. I just hate when someone takes advantage of a good thing. I can not believe your first question was deleted. There was nothing wrong with your question what so ever. Damn Yahoo, letting all these trolls run rampant on here. Sorry sawman that happened to you. Your questions are the best, and so are you. Have a great day my friend, Aloha.
2007-07-13 15:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ron 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL That's the way some people work. Give a little and they want a lot more! I think it's because they know you did one thing to help, so why not ask again. They finally get you to the point you are sorry you ever bothered at all,
violation?
2007-07-13 07:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I offered to do a majority part of a group assignment, and it ended up with me doing the whole thing instead
2007-07-13 06:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep. It's harsh sometimes, but you help the person with the important stuff, but tell them they need to grow up a bit and learn to handle their smaller problems themselves.
2007-07-13 06:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by lieutenant70648 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes sow good things to reap good things in future
2007-07-13 06:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by ahws437 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've changed phone numbers to get away from one-time favours that turned into lifelong commitments!
(shaking head)
2007-07-13 12:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yup it happens all the time. If you give then an inch they want a mile!
2007-07-13 07:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but they eventually get them message I'm not their personal "go to guy"
2007-07-13 06:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Always Curious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and now that person is getting way too dependent on me. =[
2007-07-13 06:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋