What did you do when you found out?
2007-07-12 22:51:33 · 76 answers · asked by Idiot 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yep, it broke my marriage up
2007-07-12 22:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by bagpuss 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No I havnt and I suppose im very lucky not to have, or perhaps im just perfect lol.
I think cheating is the lowest of the low, its sick and only a sick, selfish human being could do that. I think women are the worst for doing it.
When a man cheats or has an affair he will never leave his wife but when a woman does it she confuses sex with love and leaves her husband and kids but she always gets her due when her lover cheats on her and leaves her
2007-07-20 11:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by hornybunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i found out i broke it off and after a couple months he asked me again but i didn't go thru with it so i just moved on. moving on is the best thing plus there are so many people out there, theres bound to be one that is just right for u. like those shapes that babies play with when they have to push it thru a cube with different shaped holes and find on that it actually fits on. since i knew how it felt to be cheated on i knew it wasnt ever worth it to do it back to that person or anyone at all. plus i bet if someone did cheat on you the way they did everytme that person sees u theres a big regret that they can never remove from what that person has done to you
2007-07-12 23:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes by both my wives and the first one I found after we split up after that never trusted her and the second one I left her after she cheated and divorced her she was a slag and should have seen between the lines but we all make mistakes. Now i would not piss on her if she was on fire.
If you read between the lines you can tell that I do not agree with cheating in any form and I will finish with any woman who does however much I care about them.
2007-07-12 23:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Edgein 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yep and it broke my heart, so bad that i cant trust again. I have made my mind up to stay on my own now. I never ever ever want to feel that sort of pain again as long as i live, it still hurts now. How can anyone tell you they love you and then hurt you that way. I personally am not capable of doing anything like that. There isn't much you can do when you find out, just go through stages of being hurt, not wanting to live, blaming yourself, begging them back, realising you dont want them after what they did, hating them, pittying them. All these emotions are too much for a hurt and lonely person to cope with alone, and that's how they left you, alone.
2007-07-12 23:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by lindyloo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I think most people have been cheated on in some way or other even if it was just in thought. Of course the actual act is always devastating but we somehow seem to eventually get over the terrible pain and move on.
2007-07-20 19:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kandie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, but I've also cheated on somebody. However, back then, I broke up with the guy. It worked as a good excuse for me to leave him. Our relationship had ended long before that.
2007-07-12 23:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lilaki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not as far as I know, but then I had never been serious enough about anyone to care if they did or not, I had always been a 'take or leave it' kind of person in relationships, now I am married to someone I truly love and adore and respect, if he ever cheated on me It would totally destroy that, and I would walk away in an instant, I am nobody's doormat.
2007-07-12 23:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I found out she actually cheated on herself!
2007-07-12 22:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes i have about 5 years ago with an ex partner, lets just say i kinda knew there was summat going on and i answered his mobile phone one day and it was her asking for him, i asked who she was and she had no idea we were still together, he had told her we had fallen out months prior, felt good when i could hear her giving him a hard time over it, but it likely didnt stop her cos i found semi naked pics of her in his draw, wished now i had dropped him off at her house on my way to a party in glasgow. long way to walk back to cumbria eh lol
2007-07-19 22:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup. When my husband had a picture of the person on the nightstand and I found her job identification in his pocket. I just left him and now I am happily divorced.
2007-07-20 08:40:54 · answer #11 · answered by beaddiva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋