Would you massage your friend's feet after dance class if she asked?

Question

My friend Susan asked me to do this last and really caught me off guard. We are good friends, but it sort of grossed me out.

Today she asked me again and I did not know what to do so I did it again. I feel guilty saying no because I know how tiring dance can be.

Answer 1

That's kind of rude of her... If you feel too guilty to say "no" tell her :"Yeah, but go to the bathroom rinse them off for me, would you?" She might get the hint. Ask her to massage yours in return. She'll probably agree that one time, but probably won't ask you again.

Answer 2

It's actually a little rude to ask your friend to do that, even if you are FRIENDS. You are a good friend for doing it when you really don't want to. I know feet can get really smelly, or sweaty after dancing so I give you props. It depends on what kind of friend she is. If I had a really close friend ask me to do that, I would be honest enought to tell her no, but it sounds like you guys aren't super close. Just tell her something like, "You know, I know that you are soar from dancing and I am too, but I'm a little too tired, sorry" Just put it into your own words, though. by the way, what type of dancing do you do? I do highland

Answer 3

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Answer 4

What the hell!

If something grosses you out...why the heck should you do it??
Would you eat broccoli or spinach, if you hate it, just because your friend asks you to?

Next time when your friend asks you to do it...humor saying "NO! Last time, I had to wash my hand with acid...coz they smell bad"
OR "Ya sure! But promise me you'll pick my nose...coz it is really itchy!"
OR
"Why...did Osama had your hands for dinner?"
OR

simply say "No, I find it icky."....If she is a good friend of yours...she'd understand.

Personally, I would not do it...what are mommies for? : )

Answer 5

If it will not bother you much do it. Then if she still do it after she dance, well, she knew that you can't turn her down. In my case I will suggest to her to go to the masage parlor to have a foot spa. There she will pay for the services of a masseur.

Answer 6

hi.......you know what is the best solution if u can'y say no to her.......both of yo'll could do each otha a favour by massagin each otha's feet.....You could tell her that u need a massage too coz ur feet hurts like hell......so just be calm bout it and say..."Hey, could you do my feet as well"....:)
and lets see if she does it.....and see if the next times she ask......if no.....then she probably is disgusted too or she is just not a friend.....
P.S------> just be frank.....:P

Answer 7

A girl yes, a guy I'd tellem to get out my ****** face.

Answer 8

im a guy so id say yesw if it was a girl couse it be a favour unless its a guy then no

Answer 9

Is there anything wrong with it? No. But if you dont want to do it, then tell her you dont feel comfortable doing it.

Answer 10

yes..or just have them soak their feet in hot water.