What's the best way to deal with a so-called good friend who seems to think they can treat me like crap?

Question

I recently went on a 2 week trip overseas with a friend and she was just shitty towards me most of the time. She put down practiclly everything that came out of my mouth and made out like everything I did and said was just wrong or plain stupid. Whenever someone spoke to me, she would get really annoyed with me and if I had a conversation with anybody, she would go over what I'd said afterwards and just made out like I'd said the wrong thing to them, as if I'd embarrassed her or something. By the second week she was sing anything she could think of that she knew would really annoy me, tryin to pick a fight with me but I just pretended not to notice the whole time. he is really painflly sensative and shy and just insecure, but that's no excuse to treat me like ****. What the hell can I do about it? Any advice would be much apreciated.

Answer 1

Tell them get lost. If they can't treat you right, then they aren't a friend.

Answer 2

First off, re-evaluate the friendship you think you two may have. Perhaps she was shitty towards you because she may thought that this trip was so the two of you could make a more intimate connection, away from the people that you may associate with on a regular basis and was her way to seek your attention. You should know that there are not many women out there that will just come right out and speak their mind to a man. This may have been a sign for you that she was seeking more of your attention and when you did not present it to her, she tried to make the trip a bad experience.


Find out from her why she acted the way she did and what she is looking for in the relationship you have.
Good Luck..

Answer 3

I have had something like this happen to me. The first time I have ever met my friend, she was very nice and fun to hang with. But as time goes on , a year, she began to control what I do and say. Sometime she would make me feel like everything I do was wrong and everything she did was right. We would argue on stupid little stuff, but she would still argue to get her way, even though i was right and she would know it.

The thing I did first was avoiding her for a week and of course that worked....for a while. After 4 days she began to treat me like crap again.

Than I confronted to her over the phone. BIG mistake. Never do anything that is important over the phone. Alway face to face. She didn't get it and the next day she went on like nothing had happen.

So I told her face to face and she was like um ok. She tried to lie and blame everything on me so i have had it and just left her. I never talked to her again.

So I would say confront her and see what happen there. If it works out than GOOD! =]

But if it doesn't than I suggest you to get out of tht situation fast!

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Answer 4

I too went through the same thing. Someone who I thought was my friend for the last 6 years was just using my husband and I. This friend was also very insecure and jealous. You need to get rid of people like this in your life. I have and yet it was really sad to realize this person hated everything about me, It's becoming more of a relief as each day passes. These insecure jealous so called friends do not have you in your best interest. Stand up for yourself. Don't be anyone's doormat.

Answer 5

Just don't be friends with him anymore. He has no right to treat you like crap and you just need to stop associating with him. If you value his friendship, then I would talk to him about it and ask what the deal is, he doesn't have a right to treat you like that. If you talk and it doesn't stop, then just let him go as a friend and move on.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

The relationship is over. NO friend would treat another like that.

Answer 8

alrighty this is a situation i found myself in and my advice is to get out of it. you shouldnt compromise your values in a way that makes you unhappy. you dont deserve that and he desereves to learn how to be a better friend and his family and friends deserve it too. so think about what a great eye opener you would be & a benefit to everyone.

Answer 9

i have a gal pal like that. i didnt know wat to do about it. but i went to my other friends about it and they hadnt noticed. so i confronted her about it....and she pissed me off by saying that she "didnt kno she was doing it" ....but first talk to her about it, then if that doesnt go through get someone else to talk to them about it...and then if that doesnt work tell her u can not b friends with her until he starts acting like a friend to u. being somones friend means that u both care about each ther and protect each other and r always there for each other. from wat u said i dont think thats going both ways here. i hope maybe wat i said helps u a lil...

Answer 10

Yeh, say godbye to the jerk. friends like that no body wants.