What would you think if your spouse said this to you??
2007-07-12 17:18:17 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
dumpher
2007-07-12 17:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by puablondes 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not take it.It is called emotional abuse.I would say get out before he or she starts saying meaner things.If the person don't care about your feelings.Do you really think they care about you.The answer no they don't. You have the right to be happy and if the person your with says they don't care if you are happy then go be happy don't put up with that stuff.It is not right for the person you are with to say they don't care how you're feeling.Remember you have the right to be happy!!Make yourself happy.A little advice from a person who knows get out before it gets worse.It happened to me and the thing that was said to me was I don't care if you love me.So trust me it will get worse I know from experience.You don't have to take my advice.You could also talk to the person and say how that made you feel but remember what he or she said to begin with and ask yourself this question what is he or she going to say this time if last time he or she said they don't care if your happy.The thing is that you have the right to be happy.But this is called emotional abuse and you don't have to take it.The thing is with emotional abuse the person that causes the abuse will beg and say they are sorry and give it sometime and they will do it again Remember you have the right to be happy take care of yourself.In answer to your question of how I would feel tore apart.Now if you are asking now that I recognize what was happening Would leave without a second thought
2007-07-12 17:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by yenteramanda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your spouse said this in the heat of the moment I'd try not to get real upset, we all say things we don't really mean when we are pissed off.
How many times have his words made you feel good? We tend to dwell on the bad more than the good when we are upset.
2007-07-12 17:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was I doing that she said this to me?
Was I eating lots of ice cream?
Was I in bed with someone else?
Was I watching porn?
Was I eating fried food?
Maybe I'm taking the question the wrong way.
It sounds like...Who cares (honey), (as long as) you're happy.
I would think.......what a cool broad!
2007-07-12 17:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very mad be like listen here mister! When we got married we made a choice to love each other and if you treat me like this and you dont care!
I dont know what i would be maybe go to counseling for you marriage but whatever you want to do!
Good Luck.
2007-07-12 17:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by *Lily* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill her or him, then cut up the body, put the small ones in a plastic bag and leave them somewhere would someone could find them. Make sure to keep the big pieces in your garage so when the cops search your house they have ample evidence. Oh and make sure to run barefoot in snow.
2007-07-12 17:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by thatkidoverthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "you know what?! you're right! I mean, I don't care if you're happy, and as long as I'm happy, who cares!"
2007-07-12 17:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by .:КαяLα:. ㋡ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think he didn't care if I was happy! Of course, that would be pretty stupid cause if momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!
2007-07-12 17:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think we were not happy with eachother at that point in time. But remember that will pass
2007-07-12 17:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its time to get a new spouse.
2007-07-12 17:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think about a good lawyer...
but I guess it kind of depends on why it was said?
An argument?
2007-07-12 17:20:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋