grandpa- cared too much about family
didnt have $ for insurance
got lung cancer
my hero
2007-07-12 17:17:37 · 8 answers · asked by hockey101 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
my grandpa raised me and when he passed i was down, but you gotta let him rest in peace and live the way he would have wanted you to. dwelling over a loss isn't gonna make you or him any better.
sorry to hear that
hope you feel better
2007-07-12 18:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by aaaaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry about your Grandpa.Grandparents are so neat.I feel sorry when someone didn't get to know theirs.If you can afford it buy a tree & plant it in his honor.Get some flower seed's of flowers he liked,& plant them.Contribute some money to the cancer society.Or if he liked animals contribute to an org.that saves animals.
What works for me is to think of my loved ones,& the good times we had & to laugh at the crazy,funny things they said or did! What greater tribute than what you've already given,You said he is your HERO.What a wonderful person he must have been.I only hope my G-kids will think that about me! Remember him in the light,not the darkness.Good Luck.
Emily
2007-07-13 00:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by ejacks48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize that death is just another part of life. A transition. If you're open to it, you will be able to see and feel your grandfather all around you. Many times in nature. I've experienced this many times as have others that I know. You celebrate his life by remembering his love for others and continuing your love for him. Smile and give him enough light to go home on.....:)
2007-07-13 02:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept it.
Say goodbye to him. Support the other family members he left behind. It is sad, but it is irreversible.
You have your own life to live, and so do other surviving family members. If you and he were Christians you can take comfort that there will be a time you will be together again.
He would want you to go on and grow beyond his passing, but I think he would be very proud to know you miss him.
2007-07-13 00:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. In time the pain will heal. Life has its ups and downs unfortunately but time will heal. Seek comfort in those you know will help you.
2007-07-13 00:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to take each day as it comes. some will be easier than others. it will get easier, and you'll never stop missing him. but life goes on.
2007-07-13 00:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by heatherr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very sad....Sorry for your loss.
Time is the only way I know.
2007-07-13 00:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by krissyderic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont....but the pain subsides
2007-07-13 00:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋